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It has been 1 year since my brother started living with us.
When he was a child he used to get beaten by dad for scoring less. I know that was cruel and I hate my dad for doing this but my dad improved. He was his first child so he did not know how to handle him. He was just trying to secure his future. I know from the inside even my dad regrets it. At that time my dad was also under a lot of pressure from family, workplaces etc. Even I used to hate his habit but it doesn't mean that you will start abusing your parents emotionally and verbally, right?
5 years ago my dad had a n accident and everything changed. His perspective towards life changed, he knew that what he had done in the past was wrong and he started regretting his mistakes... He has never hit me.
After securing a job my brother started living with us. Now almost everyday is like a hell. Whenever he comes home he starts shouting at my mom and dad and mocking them in the worst behavior he can. He starts saying that my parents are thief's, the party they support are theif, their religion is nonsense, there family is nonsense. He can't let us live peacefully. He says that he will break the tv if they see certain programmmes. He even started misbehaving with my dad and he said if he will hit him then he will do the same. He is abusing them emotionally everyday.
Sometimes I am afraid that my dad will get a high bp. They are both men and I don't think this will be peaceful anymore I am scared that they might get involved in physical fighting.
He is trying to control our lives, our voices, what we can do and whatnot...
I don't know what to do. Me and my mother have tried to make him understand. But he won't he has said that he won't leave our house and he will continue this.
Please tell me how to stop him. I can't see my mother crying in fear anymore and my dad going through this nonsense.
PS - I am just a teen girl studying in school.
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My son was like that and I lived with his abuse for years. Your brother has a hold over your family and someone has to do something about it. He has to be forced out and a restraining order has to be obtained so that if he returns the police can act to force him away. He is a nasty horrible person and because his dad hit him when he was young is no excuse for him to act like this. When he is out change the locks on the outside doors, lock the windows, and if you have shutters on the windows have them closed when he returns. Also put all of his belongings outside as well. Call the police if you have to. This won't be easy but you have to do something. It would be better if you can all move so when he returns you are all gone and the house is empty. That would fix him. If you are renting the house you can do that. Do not let him know where you are. Also pray to God and please build up a good relationship with God so that He will help you. Good luck
ReplyIf your home is a rental and your parents have money they can pay for him to go on a holiday, then when he is gone pack up and move to another house in a different suburb and not let him know where you are. If your parents own the home move to a rental property and put their house on the market with no sign out the front, and if your brother does find the real estate they are going through make sure the agent does not let him know where you have moved to. I am sure if he gets violent toward the agent the police will be called and he will be arrested. Nothing you do will be easy.
ReplyIf there is something which you can do, is to win your brothers heart. He needs realization of the truth like u do. Your brother is sick.
Replyyour brother is hurt..he was abused and had a very tough time...rather than abandoning him or doing anything more to hurt him by restraining order or something, talk to him, take him to a counselor infact, take your mom and dad too....ik they might be very skeptical about it but it is the only way to save your family. let your parents apologise to him and make him realise its family after all....
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