I am so needy around women who I feel romantic connection to...

I quickly make you my whole life. I forget my other pass times , friends and work interests. I start to transfer all of my "life" over to your care! You get frightened and leave, or start feeling like I am not the person you met in the first place - and I am not - I know it!

So I tend to engage in a relationship with women , who I am less likely to have strong feelings about, to protect self.

I then feel dissatisfied in that relationship - like I have "sold myself short".

AHHHHHHH!