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Okay novni I have a question and a huge concern, Please read! I've been dating this guy for about 8 months now and he is okay but I have noticed a lot of red flags. I love him so much but at the same time there are things that I do not like. I know that no one is perfect but he won't take care of his teeth they are black π, he won't take care of his body, he keeps his room super dirty, he doesn't have a job and he doesn't look like he is in a hurry to find one. I have 3 jobs and I am in school. I bust my butt every day to keep going in life. Today is Christmas but it truly doesn't feel like it for me. I'm tired of trying to pretend to be happy. It is not working anymore!!!!. The problem is he won't let me go, every time I try to leave he pops up at my house or he begs me to stay or his family will constantly call me.. I wind up feeling bad and going back and I wind up falling for it AGAIN. I'm tired of feeling weak and giving in. What should I do? Why do I keep running? I just want to be happy but I'm tired of being with people that I ALWAYS drag me down and make me feel super exhausted. I don't want to be mean but I'm tired of telling him how I feel and him ALWAYS ignoring it. I don't want to stay anymore! But I don't know how to leave without feeling like I may cause someone to hurt me verbally or physically . Please please help!
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Make as clean of a break as possible. Block calls and donβt answer the door unless you have someone else there. File for a protective order id necessary.
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ReplyThank you. It hurts because I do love him and his family but my heart can't take this any longer. I'm beyond unhappy with my goals and the way things are going while being with him
ReplyYou have to love yourself first. Any partner should help you and walk beside you, not scare you or bring you down.
ReplyIt's okay to feel sad when you break up with him. But keep in mind, you deserve more!!! He takes you for granted and doesn't care about you, this is how we feel as the third person. Find someone else, maybe your good friend, relatives or family members, ask them for help if you can't deal with that guy by yourself and if you are afraid that he will hurt you physically, file for a case.
ReplyThank you. I have to keep reading your post because this really helps motivate me.
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