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Does it even matter if im being a stupid teen in love or should i be concerned? My now bf and I have been best friends with secret and very strong feelings for each other for over a year. We're both 16. We've been through a lot together and have helped each other tremendously in combatting suicide and understanding our mental illnesses. We're very much in love. We've both talked about how much we really would love to one day get married and start our own family together. Are we stupid for wanting that and being so in love? Is this how every first actual love is? We are both very very secure with lots of communication and a complete love and acceptance for all of the other's flaws. It comes so naturally for us to want to give each other everything. Is that wrong? The restrictiveness of my parents concerns me. I know they know more about this than I do. My mom wants me to guard my heart. Am I being stupid for giving it to someone I love so much? Kind of just want this week to be over. A lot has happened I guess.
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Well, I had the same thoughts when I was 16 and started dating a guy a really liked.We thought that we will get married and have kids, we dated 2 years and 3 months.
But, as we grow older, my boyfriend started searching other girls, he installed tinder and other dating apps, and then he met a girl online (they played the sam game).He left me for her and went in another town to see her just a day after he met her online(that night he told me that he loves me and he was with her!!!!!)
He met a girl from Poland in august and they started dating the same day they met while I still love him although I'm 23 now.
I never dated anyone aftee him, he was my first love.
People CHANGE, you can't know how will you bf feel after a couple of years when you grow older, you are thinking the same as I did when I was your age.I don't want anyone to feel the same as I feel today, you have to be ready for everything, you don't know what future holds.You are "kids" that think they're old enough to think about everything.You are young, and both of you will meet new people, you don't know will you like anyone new.
Don't lock your heart the same way I did.
Sorry for bad english, english is not my first language.
ReplyThank you very much for your reply, I appreciate it a lot. Your English is pretty good by the way. :) ❤️ Much love
ReplyNot at all ❤
Happy New year!
ReplyHappy new year to you too :)
ReplyNo, you are right with this. You both know what you want and best wishes for the future.
ReplyWell, if you're saying you both love each other and would do anything for each other, go for it. What's a few years wait to get married to the love of your life? Tiny bit of advice though, give it more time to see if you're absolutely sure. (I'm rooting for you, though :> )
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