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After a long process, my significant other decided to part ways, and not on good terms. They have stated they want nothing to do with me. I'll be honest the whole process is a whole different story on its own, but I'm here to talk about what is currently going on. I go to a smaller school than most and I am included in a tightly knit group of friends, about 8 people. My ex and I are in this group. Now for the main problem I have. When we were in a relationship, there was one of my close friends who they had made aware to me that they had been interested in him in the past, about a year ago, but was rejected by them. They were cool and friends now, as I was with him. I would sometimes get jealous when I saw them close a couple of times during the relationship but this never led to any arguments, as I would be calmly open about it and we would talk it out and they would reassure me that there was nothing and they were just friends. I believed them wholeheartedly, as I had taken a lot of time to know this person and they were honest about everything. Not the lying type. More so the If-I-feel-this-way-ill-tell-you-to-your-face type, which is why I had so much trust in them. Come now to after the breakup, about 2 weeks, I find out that they have a thing for my close friend, and I find out he does as well. I am unaware if they are officially dating, but I have to see them up close flirt and do the same things that happened to me when my ex and I were best friends. I could remove myself, but I would be giving up my only friends, who are all dear to me. There is no ill-will between me and the close friend, I actually appreciate it because he was honest with me when it came to how he felt towards my ex after everything. He wanted me to know beforehand, so it would be less painful than finding out later out of nowhere. But yeah, I do not know what to do. I know there is probably nothing I can do but it's so painful. It was bad enough hearing my best friend and at the same time, my significant other, say that they want absolutely nothing to do with me. There are other things as well such as them sharing private conversations I have had with them on social media and then playing a victim to try to get some of my friends in the group to hate me, in which they succeeded a little bit, which happened recently. I feel like I'm at a loss and I have a lot more to say but I'd just be a broken record. Also, I am aware that many people have gone through similar situations and I am not special as well as people have gone through much worse. This is just very critical and saddening to me personally. If anyone has any thoughts, notes, advice, etc. I would be happy to hear them. Thank you.
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