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Soooo Im 21 my crush is 19, I know I know but I also dated someone who was 21 when I was 19 and it was not a bad experience hehe😅. Anyway.. I have a crush on this guy and I know he does too! He throws too many hints but sometimes to be honest I don’t know how to throw HIM hints I feel like he thinks I like him sometimes and sometimes he’s confused and same here sometimes! And our co workers know that we like each other cause they tell us just get together already or they talk to us like if we were a couple already and we just laugh right? We go along with it😆. But I ughh because he’s 19 sometimes I’m scared that he just wants to mess around and not be serious. I’m scared of rejection and I’m scared of getting hurt. But I really like him ! So I would give it a try.. but I don’t know how to let him know for sure that I do like him 🥺 because I’m shy and give him mixed signals 😫. I’m to shy to be straightforward... and his birthday is coming but again! I’m afraid of being friend zoned or something idk 😭😭 like sometimes I feel he likes me and sometimes idk. & sometimes the signs are too obvious and he tells me o what did I miss and I’m like not much.. it wasn’t so busy and he says “ I missed you though” and in this case ji can probably hint him too right! But nothing comes to my head I just smile at him🥺🥺 I cant flirt back please help 😭🥺
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Hahahaha... Well normal teenager problem I guess. Well don't propose to him. But you should definitely go on a date with him!!!! It's nothing wrong dating a younger guy. I have dated guys who are younger than me. You are still young so you should explore more. Just bring him out on his birthday and ask him whether he wanna hang out sometime like watch movies and stuff like that.
ReplyI like how you’re laughing this because it’s not so hard right? Yea thanks for answering. The thing is I don’t even know how to hint if we should hangout sometime 😂😂😂 Im THAT shy. Sometimes I hate myself for being like that. My friend talked to her crush till he gave her his number and now they’re together. I wish I had more guts to I’ve him more hints ): but thanks. I’ll try to suck it up!😤 because I’m scared that he’ll get tired of trying 🥺
Replywell don't hate yourself. The right guy will love you for who you are. I know it's hard to trust that. But I learned it in the hard way.
ReplyAww thank you!🥺🥺
ReplyInvite him to have a drink with you and see what he says. He can only reject your offer and then you will know where you stand and you won't have to wonder what if... any more.
ReplyYou’re right, thank you☺️
ReplyHe is probably interested in you. There's a language of eyes and smiles, a subtle exchange of signs with some tension in the air, when people are interested. Don't even doubt it. There is also a very clear language when people are not interested, and you didn't receive any of those. You'd know if you did. And for what you said, he is probably shy too. Maybe even more than you are. So try to start with a simple conversation. Make up an open-end question, as in, "how was your day?", or something that could help him to start to tell a story, not a simple yes or no, or a simple one-word answer. Go for it!
ReplyAhhh okay that helps me have more conversation with him! Yea because I’m too shy but I enjoy talking to him (: thanks for answering! I’ll try my best!😊
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