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This guy friend of mine is also a very good friend of my best friend. We all used to talk a lot and everything. My best friend liked him, but he liked me. And all that happened, but regardless of that I was close to him. At that time my best friend was jealous of me because he spoke to me in private and I tried my best to not talk to him but it was impossible because he helped me with something important in life. But as time passes by I realised that we both are not the only people in his life. He had like 100 people friends and he shared their stuff like clicking screenshots of their chats and I was weirded out. After that he moved to Canada and I was still talking to him but then I got busy and all so it reduced.
He still kept on saying I'm his close friend and blah blah, but when it was my birthday he didn't post a single picture with me. (We had many) on his social media .. whereas he did it for someone who in reality isn't even that close. He just wished me on dms. I thought oh maybe he doesn't want everyone to know that he is friends with me, because I had a fight with him once and his guy friends hated me. So probably he didn't want them to see.
But now I saw he posted a pic with my best friend on her birthday with ease. When even she was involved in that fight.
I've stopped talking to him recently because he drunk texted and called me and was getting weird.( You know he liked me and stuff)
But still I felt a little bad about this incident.
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I'm sorry to hear that people have to go through stuff like this but this whole post resonated with me in a few ways. I don't have much useful insight to offer but I do know this (and it's something I have had to relearn over and over again) :
When people don't make you a priority in their lives, you can't force them to and that's the sad part of it. I've learned to see it as a blessing though for a few reasons. First, they have made it some what clear to you what YOUR priorities should be and THEY aren't one of them. Second, it is obviously way easier said than done but now you have the freedom to know that you don't have to waste your energy investing in someone who won't help you grow in life.
It's hard, especially when they used to be a wonderful, beneficial part of your life and your personal being but people come and go and what's most important in taking care of YOU.
Best of luck to you, I hope things get better and start looking up.
ReplyThankyou so much! I understand what u mean!
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