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while at school i actually found it very hard since i was 12, until the end of high school, with a couple of successful years in-between. I am a failure to my parents because I didn't do well at the finals, and my dad told me basically to do them again the next year and i did, and i failed again to enter my first school of choice. i didn't even study that hard, because i found the material incomprehensible to me. physics and biology were my worst subjects.
i went to study at university with my father's money, all his, and i couldn't graduate. i did the first year twice, and the second year twice too, and that's when i dropped out. i couldn't complete university the first time, and i really want to have a good university experience, but i feel i can't ask for money again. and i know they, especially my dad but both of them, see me as a failure. my mom considers herself to be a failure and that's why she seems friendlier but actually, she relates me to her which is a loser and a failure, so that association is not to say that she does not consider me a failure.
my dad is so messy with his emotions. so they consider me a failure and yeah, i have failed in my academic life. i actually tried two other universities after that and i didn't finish those courses either, the first because of money and the second because of procrastination at doing the assignments and also later money too.
people think i am good academically. i somehow look like that. but my parents feel so ashamed of me.
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I get how you feel. I failed at college. I failed to get my permits. I feel like Iām a burden on my parents.
ReplyI guess we just got keep trying and pray to our god to help us.
ReplyYou are not a failure. Your academic performance doesn't define who you are. Failing your classes doesn't make you a loser because you didn't let that one failure stop you and you kept on try again to make your parents proud. And I think that your parents should be proud to have a child that doesn't give up. And maybe the path you were takin wasn't really for you so try taking a different path and I'm sure you'll find your way. You got this
ReplyMaybe is the lack of inspiration. Comparing yourself to others, or letting others influence you can diminish your capacity to work, to lack ambition. Believe me, life hit me hard in many ways. But think about what you really want to do with you life. Don't think about how others will view you, don't live for them, live for yourself. This is your life. College is not for everyone, but if you really want to study a certain career, remember why you like it. Why did you want to do this career in the first place? Was it for happiness? To help others or create change? When you feel that little spark within you, you'll be inspired. I believe you need to take some time to reflect on what you really want, what you really ever wanted. Sometimes it is good to not think career-wise but about yourself or the world around you. What do you want?
People need to learn that they should also take breaks, worry about their mental and physical health because sometimes those factors alter your performance. And I also suffer a lot from procrastination. A lot. But I am trying to change that because I do not want to accept the cruel future that awaits for me if I leave important things behind just to watch shows or read memes in Instagram. They are not going to give me what I really want. Listen to My Shot by Hamilton. This used to make me feel inspired because it's about not wasting your chances, use the privileges you have to succeed. Not many people have it. I hope this helped you, and please start your journey :).
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