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Okay... there are these two guys. For the sake of the story ill call one Jack and one Shawn.
Shawn is a friend who is quite sweet and is a genuine guy, ive known him for about a year now after i moved to this new school that shawn and Jack are both in. So Shawn and i have had a ‘friends with benefits’ type of thing going on, but i really have no feelings for him, he asked me to be his prom date a bit ago.
Now.. Jack is also just as sweet and he makes me laugh and i have actual feelings for him, he also asked me to be his prom date, Shawn did ask me first and i understand that, but i have feelings for Jack and genuinly want to go with him badly, but i know that Shawn has feelings for me and if i say no to Shawn itll break his heart to see me with Jack that night, i do want to go, but i dont want to hurt either of them, and im afraid that if i go with Shawn itll hurt Jack and ill lose my chance of maybe being with him. Please help! I really need advice on what i should do in this situation ASAP. Who do i go with? And if i go with one of them... how do i talk to the other one and what do i even say to them if i dont go with them! Please please please help! ❤️❤️Thank u
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I think you should go with Jack. If you really have feelings for him, you should go for it because if you don't you might regret it. It wouldn't be fair to Shawn if you went with him but really didn't have feelings for him. I think maybe tell him in a respectful way by saying he's a sweet guy, but you don't feel the same way he does so you think it's best you don't go to prom together. He might be hurt, but it's better than him thinking you have feelings for him when you really don't.
ReplyGo with jack. FWB doesn't last and also there are no real feelings for Shawn. Follow your heart go with jack.
ReplyI had this same problem My senior year but I was to late. The guy I wanted to choose had already asked someone else. It was my fault too. Go with Jack. If you have feelings for him and you want to see if it will go somewhere take the chance now before he moves on. You miss out on half the chances you dont take.
Goodluck and have a good time.
ReplyNo matter who you choose, someone's going to get hurt. That's just how it goes. Just do what you want to do here.
ReplyGo with Shawn as he asked you first. Then make sure you have a dance with Jack and tell him how you feel about him. Good luck.
ReplyBetter to let Shawn know now that you don't have feelings for him. It's better than giving him false hope, then letting him down later.
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