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What does it mean when your own boyfriend say that he has kik and he talks to guys. And he won’t tell me of the process. Instead he say he use the app to fap????
He has picture of big bras??? He say he uses them to fap.
I’m so devastated. What should I do with my boyf who has been lying to me? We have been together for more than 3 years now.
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You may have been with him for the longest time, But if he has lied to you, and if there is this side of him you never knew, WALK AWAY. It is soo difficult to take this step. You may have the courage to do it today, or even tomorrow, But I have been exactly where you are, and from my experience, darling run away from him, He is only going to hurt you. You deserve much more. Try focus on yourself.
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ReplyConfront him with what you know and force him to choose between his big bras and you. It will help you figure out what his priorities are.
ReplyI'm sorry to hear about this;
listen, Infidelity starts early. If it ever starts at all... it starts early... and it starts small.
Find a person who takes commitment more seriously...
have you heard of Henry Cloud's book Boundaries? Sometimes we stay with people and ignore signs that should alert us to things, before it circumstances get out of control. But we ignore those signs. Has your boyfriend shown any other strange signs or made weird comments about your relationship in the past? Could this really be the first time? Be thoughtful and honest.
It's good he's finally being honest with you. But what's the deal now? Be okay with him showing a certain amount of sexual desire for random people? And fufilling said desires via social media? Now that he's revealed this to you- act swiftly... Don't be brought into more hurt for the sake of 3 years.
I'm sorry if i sound pessimistic. This is hard.
You're life is hard rightnow. Please be encouraged, these moments of great pain and devastation can be capitalized for even greater growth and learning. Don't refuse to learn from these painful lessons. I am speaking from experience.
We are not perfectly.
But certainly, you know what to do right?
x hope i helped
Goth&Cross
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