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I don't really know how to start this, but I basically realized that my parents so called "marriage" and their relationship is not normal. I've known that since I was little and I don't want to make the same mistakes they did.
How do I start with that? Is there even any help?
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What’s a model relationship to you.
ReplyMutual respect and supporting each other. Love too but I guess that love fades away in some cases later in life, but still being able to look at each other and feel respect and appreciate the other person.
ReplyWhat makes their relationship abnormal? We need some more deets to help you out.
Replysorry I was really emotional in that moment and I couldn't type t out properly. They fight constantly and my father still has issues from his childhood.
Every time he starts to argue with my mother he makes those backhanded comments and slutshames her for having normal work or friend-relationships with men.
Replyhey, how is their relationship not normal?
how is affecting you?
Replythe constant fighting isn't normal imo. My father doesn't respect my mother but at the same time he does. It's really absurd. I guess it's still a trauma from his childhood.
Their constant fighting affects me physically. I can't handle people yelling me or yelling at each other it makes me sick.
Replymy mom and dad used to yell at each other until my highschool years. it was bad, and it affected me a lot until now. but as I remember those times, my family were having severe financial problems that time. Now, I kind of understand the situation they were in that time, and I can't fully blame anybody during those hardships. My parents right now are still married, and they happier and more content than before.
I wish the relationship of your parents will get better.
ReplyHey, naw, your doomed. You'll be just like your parents.
Oh, well, actually i may know something, now that i think of it.
Have u heard of Dave Ramsey?
He says the top reasons there are fights and divorce in marriage is because of Money problems and money fights.
Before a couple should become married they must agree wholeheartedly on top 5 stressors in a marriage.
1. money
2. kids
3. inlaws
4. religion
5. (i forgot)
take good care to get to know the person deeply, before you become intimate aswell. And also, take your time. You may feel desperate and get sloppy/make bad decisions...
Not worth it. not worth it.
not
worth
it.
stay calm and patient and MARRIAGE CONSOLING.
got it?
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