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Ok, so I've come out to quite a few people as pan and by now i have accepted that some days i feel really gay, others not so much, but that's not a big deal. I might not even go by any labels in the future, once i start dating, but that's not what's bothering me.
I am starting to have scary doubts that i somehow made myself feel gay at some point in my life, just by looking at how happy other gay people looked, how good it looked to be a part of something, and i'm worried that my insecurities got the better of me and gave me gay thoughts? It sounds mad, and i haven't talked to anyone about this, but im just wondering if anyone else has had this sort of experience. I hate the idea that i became gay just to stop being lonely. I only recently realised i might not be straight when i was thirteen (fifteen now) and i just really need advice.
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You are confused about your sexuality. You don't know whether or not your gay yet so wait until you are older. You should know whether you are attracted to girls or boys.
Replysexuality is fluid. you are who you are. it doesn't matter if you "made" yourself gay or anything like that. what matters is that you accept yourself and who you are. you need to love yourself and be patient with yourself. love is love. listen to the song called alanis intrlude by halsey, "'Cause he and she is her
And her and he are loved
And I have never felt the difference
'Cause he and she is her
And her and he are loved
A child in all these labels
...this lyrics speak volumes.
STAY STRONG AND LOVE YOURSELF, ALWAYS
Reply@loveisaburninggarden1 dear god thank you, that really helped. You are an awesome human being for posting this comment. You love yourself as well my dude, keep being epic
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