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so I have this friend, she's my best friend, but i'm starting to noticing really toxic traits. examples are we always have to do what she wants & never what I want & if I do what I want anyways she always leaves & goes home. We always have to listen to her music, watch her shows, go where she wants, do what she wants to do & I never get an input. If I even try to give my input she always complains. We have amazing memories & really good moments, but it's gotten to the point where it's like walking on glass to be her friend. She doesn't ever seem happy for me whenever good things come to me, especially relationships. She gets extremely jealous if I talk to anybody else or even try to invite anybody else with us, including my mom or brother & gets annoyed so easily & comes off so rude to my family & other friends. Kinda like she only wants it to be me & her only forever or something. What should I do? I don't wanna lose our good moments & the good parts about her but I also cannot stand the negative parts bc it feels like i'm back in my toxic ass relationship with my ex. Someone give me advice.
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ReplyWell. I have witnessed something similar, sort of. When I was in 3rd Grade, my best friend turned on me. In this situation, I assumed it would all be better tomorrow. She'd make me cry solemnly into my sheets and break down in the stairwell. But it happens.
No friend-relationships are ever intact. Especially like this. Looking back on my 3rd Grade life, I realize: was she ever really my friend?
The answer is: No. She wasn't ever my friend.
The solution to this is to give her her own medicine back. Stand up for yourself, even physically. Show her who's boss.
If this doesn't work, that's okay. Sometimes we all have to move on. That's how life works.
I haven't spoken to my ex-best friend for years now. We stay away from each other, never talk to each other. Never talk about each other.
She drove everything--and everyone---I liked away from me. Until everyone realized what she was doing. So, before your "toxic friend," gets worse... don't wait like I did until my other friends realize and tell their moms (and so on and so forth) Sometimes, you have to move on. I promise you, you'll find better friends.
ReplyFrom what you just wrote, the negatives of your friendship, far outweigh the positives so I suggest you RUN! First try to verbally end your friendship and if this doesn't work, distance yourself from her and cut all ties with her. It's not good for your health dear, so please leave!
ReplyFrom what you just wrote, the negatives of your friendship, far outweigh the positives so I suggest you RUN! First try to verbally end your friendship and if this doesn't work, distance yourself from her and cut all ties with her. It's not good for your health dear, so please leave!
ReplyDrop her sis.
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