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Hi, I'm 7yrs inlove with my boyfriend even he break me up already, it's been 8months with him but without label. He ask me to stay our relationship but without commitment, label or anything about expectation in the future. So i stay because i love him.
He wants me to stay because I'm the only one who really can understand, know everything, comfortable.
He don't want a commitment because he's honestly can't promise the future, he can't be contented, he admit he doesn't love me. He admit he never been inlove.
So, I understand but in one condition.
"If you already chasing someone else, tell me and let me go before knowing you have already someone. And let me Deleted all connection to avoid so much hurt and don't ever meet you again."
Yesterday i tell it again about condition. I almost deleted my social media to avoid him but he stopped me. He said "please stay, I don't have someone else and i promise i won't chase any girls, just you please, stay with me.
So again I'm foolish.
Idk why, and i Can't really understand why he want me to stay.
He said he's not guilty or pity.
He want me to stay because he don't want to lose me.
(Why?
Do you love me?
Whyy?
Do you really don't love me?)
Idk whats really Love means.
I'm just, want him with commitment, label, expectation.
Am i selfish? wanted him to be boyfriend material, always active in our communication, don't want him to have someone else.
Am i forced him to love me?
He said, he didn't forced.
He said, I'm the one who forced to stay.
Uhhh i want him one day to regret to lose me. I'm really tired but i honestly love him so much.
Help me.
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He is being selfish expecting you to stay with him with no engagement or marriage in the future. If you want a committed relationship leave him. Otherwise waste your time hanging around with him. You love him but you must decide which is more important, love or commitment.
ReplyCut all your communications with him and move on. He's a toxic a person and I'm sorry for saying this but, you toxic to yourself, even though you he hurt you many times and you still listen to his words and justified what he was doing because you love him thats bs.. Truth is, some things can't be justified and you are not 'in love' with him if you are desperate for him to stay, its more like an obsession than being 'in love' with the person. This relationship is just toxic in general. Don't settle for someone who doesn't want you because in the end your just hurting yourself. I hope you will see this.
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