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Miss you like crazy
I can't make you understand.
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You can help more with understand but you have other, perhaps, bigger priorities. But you are not helpless, you are choosing your priorities. That isn't wrong. It's just wrong that to think you are stuck.
ReplyTrue I am not helpless..I know I love and I am loved too more than I deserve my heart knows that..yes I am choosing priority and that is to make others happy.I know with this choice I am hurting myself and may be hurting my love but I hope in bigger perspective my this little sacrifice has made someone I love lead a happy and healthy life.. whatever small touches I feel here and there it soothes my burning heart. My closeness if disturbs the balance it's better to stay away and love truly from far..but I know I can fall back anytime at any hour and that's my trust and my support ,my love.i know my love is out there always with me..
ReplyWhile I don't know your full situation, and I realize you may feel that you are doing what's best for that person, but in reality you may be doing the opposite, and it honestly sounds like you're in fact being selfish instead of selfless. Here's my logic: If you truly love her/him... then you would respect that person enough to tell her/him the truth & allow that person to decide for herself/himself what would make her/him happy and healthy. Instead it seems like you are making the choice for the person without her/him even knowing that there is even a choice available. It also seems like you have withheld telling that person that she/he is loved by you, and thus leaving that person to feel unloved by you.
ReplyYou are absolutely right..I am selfish..I truly appreciate your views but you know sometimes it's good to be selfish.
ReplyAs far as being selfish... I agree that sometimes putting yourself first is necessary. However, there are other times when it simply is not necessary. If you become overly selfish and only think about yourself (especially when it involves that person), then you tip the balance and your shadow behavior becomes hurtful to those you love and destructive to your relationships.
ReplyI miss you. Thatโs all dear friend.
ReplyTo WJD - Sorry, you got the wrong person... I don't know you. But I do know what it feels like to miss someone.
ReplyOk. Thank you. I didnโt make those previous replies. Just FYI
ReplyHi, WJD - FYI: I'm not the author. I'm the one who wrote the reply "As far as being selfish..." & "To WJD - Sorry,...".
ReplyI just don't understand why do you feel there is a need to give any clarification. Do I know you?
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