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I hate this feeling. I dont want it. I'm not in an exclusive relationship but we do have an unsaid chemistry. He confessed before, but I'm unsure of how I feel and if I can commit. But I feel guilty when hes with our other female friends alone. I feel like he'll prefer them and spend less time with me.
I feel that I do like him, but theres too many conflicts if we did. I plan to move to another country in a yr or two.... and thinking of sharing my time and memories only for it to end is quite heart breaking to think about. And him saying hed never move, it stops me from stepping forward and saying yes to him...
Anyhow. The guilt and horrible feeling I get when I hear hes with another, terrifies me. I'm not with him. I know they're our friends, except one that I know has a crush on him, and that's it. But the idea annoys me. I want all his attention at times....
I said to myself I'd never be that way.... and look at me....
I thought I could fully trust a potential partner and be okay with him and female friends hanging out without jealousy and it makes me cry coz I hate that person I'm turning into.
I feel like its turning into Possessiveness as I'm hating he spends time with them alone. But I know he likes to socialise and include everyone. Hes a very nice and supportive man. And I hate myself for that.
Plz?! What can I do to stop this???
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Replyyou are insecure in this relationship especially as you intend to move away and he intends to stay here. Either he doesn't care if he is with you or not or he thinks you will change your mind and stay here with him. You must talk to him about this and him spending times with female friends. Tell him you don't feel as special as you should. Work this out with him otherwise the jealousy will come between you both.
ReplyI’ve been in the very same situation. And I have regrets on not telling what I’m feeling that time. To think he might like you. You should take risk because you dont know what might be ahead of you both. Mine was gone, he is now with other girls and im left with words unsaid that is really hurting me the most. You go girl!
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