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so my dad ask me if I'm still taking to my suitor i said to him " I'm just waiting for him to arrive its all in his hands now" he responded with " Stop hoping is there no one else?" your professional his still studying(4th year college now) your older and well established (I am 4/5 years older than him he and I been friend for 6 years and 6months and feelings grew so organically and conversation with him just flows no need to sugarcoat and so transparent and fluid ) dad said" its your choice but him being "BLACK" (his black american I am Filipino out society finds fair skin beautiful and desirable if your dark skinned you are considered auhm not desirable its societies preference and parents they worry what relatives will say....) your being selfish to want my grand-kids fathered by him future..so what if he arrives and makes an effort, whats your plan? i responded " I will go on tour with him :) " he said to just get over it and find someone else... I find it kinda sad his being judge just coz of his skin color and not coz of his character...I'm stuck dad said if i choose him i have to leave the country and forget them ...coz its not accepted here... I understand, its kinda sad really... If i were to choose , I want them both my family and him to get along... he is understanding about my family and my situation he wishes he be accepted too..dad said he saw nothing and about him just his shade..( I view him as a wonderful person whom I adore because he reassures me listens and appreciate me even with my imperfections I am aswell to him) I need advice ..my parents are jst worried If I choose to live other country ..I had relatives there but far.. and my suitor cant live her coz no job here for him but says more opportunity outside for me...
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