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So im certain I like this guy ...no I adore him. But I'm still cautious . My family does not approve me dating him coz his black.... but he has such a warm smile and like any human being he is decent. But my family discourages me ...Because they feel that if i choose him I have to leave my family. They are concern of the cultural difference. Because I am so short how will I defend myself? dad said...That's why I want to know him better. .. If asian woman marry a black american shes a disgrace family? and family is concern of what the society will think...what about my feelings... Is it selfish to to choose to keep my happiness ? ....Id appreciate for advice..
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I think you know yourself that your family is being unreasonable here. Skin tone doesn't define a person as humanly different.
If you truly value this guy, and he values you too, then going against your parents isn't a false option. Our parents aren't always right and the generation from which they come from, has made them narrow minded.
And no, it's not selfish to choose to keep your happiness! And even if its, then listen here, to do something to be happy is a NECESSITY. Not an act of selfishness. If YOUR happiness means good, which it does in this situation, then you fight for it. It's not selfish to take care of yourself
ReplyYour parents dont know shit.
Sorry, but it's true. Technically, saying those things is verbal abuse. Also they are racist. Can you imagine how fucking cute a half asian half black baby would look? wtf now i wanna adopt one....
ReplyAs a mother I want my children in healthy relationships I don't care about race nor gender as long as it's not a toxic relationship I'm happy. With that said I also hold different opinions from your family.. like I don't pay mind to societies standards, I don't believe blood makes family. Clearly you should take my opinion as just that an opinion. I wish you the best.
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