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What do you do when you're done with a long term relationship but have no where to go, no money to go and children and pets to think about. No friends or family you can rely on.
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ReplyI'm trying to figure that out right now. I don't know how old your kids are because that can greatly affect any decisions you might make. My 20 year marriage is coming to an end soon, luckily he is very understanding of my reasons for wanting to leave, he still wishes I wouldn't but he understands. I am waiting until my youngest, she is 15, is done with school before I leave. I also have no one to lean on and I have been a stay at home/homeschooling mom for 19 years. I have no money of my own, I have no assets of my own, and I haven't worked outside the home in nearly 20 years. We don't have a lot of money but he makes enough for us to get by without being in debt, except for the mortgage which is manageable and in his name. A long term relationship sometimes requires a long term break up plan. The next three years of my life will be spent finishing my responsibilities toward my daughter and preparing for the second half of my life. Hopefully I can save some money to get me started. I'm considering if it would be worth it to try and get grant money to go to college, a student loan is out of the question I'd probably be dead before I ever get the chance to pay it back. Before that I really just need to figure out what I want to do with the rest of my life. Our last pet died over a year ago and I refuse to get anymore, my kids will both be grown and be able to take care of themselves, that just leave the money problem and how I am going to go about making some. I fully expect that, even without having to worry about supporting anyone but myself, it is going to be difficult. Sometimes the fear of failure makes me think about not leaving but then I think of all the amazing possibilities that could be waiting for me and it give me the courage to try.
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