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What's the point of love if you'll never find it. What's the point of a significant other if they don't exist. Why do I feel so unattractive when people look at me. I'll never find love. Love will never find me. I don't deserve it. I'll never be good enough for anybody. Why is it so hard for me to love myself. I wear a jacket everyday so I don't have to see my arms, jeans everyday so I don't have to see my legs. Even when I'm at my house my socks don't come off until right before I get into the bed. I hate looking in the mirror, because then I realize that this is what everyone will have to see for the rest of the day. I'm not confident at all. I question myself a lot, I don't trust myself. I let other people make the decisions because mine will always be wrong. I'm going to grow up without anyone to save me from this solitude. I can't understand love, how it works or why it works the way it does. I can't match with anyone. I'm incompatible. Even if I were to be in a relationship, I wouldn't be able to keep it up for very long. Walking next to you would make me feel ugly. People would be wondering why you are hanging out with a guy like me. You'd probably end up leaving me anyway. I'm not worth your time. Maybe being alone is the best thing I can do.
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I'm so sorry! Many of us struggle with insecurities about our physical appearance, although it isn't usually as hard or strong as it sounds for you. Have you talked to anyone professional about this, or maybe looked into getting therapy?
ReplyYou say you question yourself a lot. Well ask yourself this. How do you know you'll never find love? How do you know that other people see you the same way you see yourself? How do you know that other people don't see you as the amazing person I'm sure you are? You might have some self doubt, but you are who you are so own it and be proud of it.
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