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Hey, you guys!
I just found this website like 2 mins. ago. I’m not really sure how this works, but here I go..
I’m a 29 year old, who just got married January of this year, 2020. No, we didn’t have anything fancy, we had no celebration or cake or ppl asking for pictures. We signed a paper and after, we went to Wendy’s. He’s 30 years old and I brought him from Mexico, close to my parents hometown. I met him there back in 2017, and we started the process of a K-1 visa. Now, after all the struggling and life obstacles, from long distance, no signal, bad wifi, long nights, stressed days, crying, wanting to be together, I find myself struggling to help him. We’re currently living with my parents and a brother. Who up until now, he’s assured me no ones made a bad gesture to him. I know living with parents his or mine, doesn’t work for too long. We’ve been here for 3 months together now and I feel like he hasn’t even given enough time to the whole “new world, leaving my place for yours” a shot. Now to be clean about the whole situation.. I’m not currently working. I’ve applied at so many places and can’t seem to get a job. Something that pays decent at least , so that I can pay our expenses, let alone all the money that people helped us out with. The tension of me either of us not working is getting out of hand and now we’ve been talking about him leaving to his sisters and me staying behind, just so we won’t bump heads as much any more. I don’t think there’s enough space for everything I want to say, or even if anyone is “listening” to me. I feel so overwhelmed I can’t find the light at the end of the tunnel. Anyways it feels good just to write it down and letting some steam go.
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ReplyShoot you gotta keep working at it and try not to sweat small things. Trust me it’s a lot easier said than done because half the time I swear the small things but no argument is worth getting in the way of your relationship. All arguments end no matter how rough. Marriage is meant to go on. Just don’t push each other too far you gotta understand that you both have limits, but it’s okay to just drop something for later or whatever. Don’t let it be all or nothing. And the financial things take time... just gotta keep trying and one day you’ll figure it out what’s best. It takes time and sacrifice. Sometimes it sucks a lot but both of you have to want it.
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