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I just want to be his loyal servant. I don't want him to have to take care of me. I think I have an issue with people caring for me. I'm just so used to doing everything myself. I don't like being cared for. I'm used to fixing myself. I feel so guilty with him helping me. I know it affects him. I'm used to being the stable one. He's trying to be the stable one. He's hurting himself. I don't know what to do. :(
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I only want to help others. I don't want other helping me. What's the deal with that? Why don't I accept others helping me out? It only makes me feel horrible! :(
Replyeverything will be okay. you don't have to be the backbone anymore. let it go, it's okay, you are loved.
ReplyThank you so much... I really do just need to let go and love
ReplyYou just need to remember that you don't need to do everything now. It's ok to do things on your own but remember part of love is going through things with each other. Don't let him do all the work, but don't do it all yourself. You both need to lean on each other. In rough times just remember you are loved, and you have someone to lean on.
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