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I need advice, it’s been a year since I’ve felt alone and never the same as I did before. It’s been a year since my heart shattered over and over again on a loop. It’s been a year since he left me. I don’t know what to do, a couple months after we went our separate ways and never spoke to each other I started to feel better like this was supposed to happen but I was wrong I was just masking what I truly felt. The relationship was toxic. We shouldn’t have been together, we hurt each other too much. But for the past year I have just had this empty hole that I can’t seem to fill. Some days all I can think about is him, other days I don’t think about him as often but he is always there in the back of my mind somewhere still causing me hurt. I thought this would be over by now but I can’t help but feel pain. please someone tell me how to get over this.
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Getting over someone you had plans with is hard but getting back out there is harder and until you realize you dont need him to make u happy he is always going to be present. Dont compare him and others if something reminds you of him change that memory to something that is yours and yours alone. I hope that one day you wont think of him
ReplyYou can get over this by meeting someone else. Or by talking with a therapist.
ReplySometimes that empty hole doesn't need to be filled in with another person - we might feel like it does, but that's not always the case. Try to fill in that hole with things that make you feel like the best you. Sometimes we are uncomfortable with ourselves and don't feel like we can provide ourselves with the things we need -- but you can!
ReplyAnd it's not easy at all - it's hard. And it's okay to still have love for someone that was toxic. We're humans!
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