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I chose to never tell anyone that I know personally that I was molested by a family member after I told one person and they used that against me.. I told my ex that I had been molested to try to vent and try to get some peace of mind and have a close and open connection with him. Instead of him making me feel like a normal person he lied about someone I know raping someone else just so that I would distance myself from that person. when i called him out on it he denied it at first but then he admitted it. I was crushed because I told him so that he knew how much I trusted him and how special our relationship actually was to me. How do you trust someone again after being put through this? How do I let go of the relationship? I love him still but I just cant forgive him. this is so heavy on my head and heart to just get over. someone please help..
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The best way to get over your ex is by being with someone else. But don't compare them. No matter how well you think you know someone you don't really know them. Trusting him was a chance you took as you do with anyone. This ex obviously didn't take the notice he should have with what you told him. You expected help from him and he didn't realise that. This is a case of miscommunication. Perhaps if you tell someone about yourself being molested again let them know first up that you need their help and comfort. But even then they might not give it. If you can't forgive him move on otherwise you will hold this against him.
ReplyI don't think I'm mentally ready to be someone else right now. and I told him what i needed from him he never listened and then told me that i wasn't open enough. i offered to go to couples therapy and he would always get mad when i would bring it up.
ReplyFirst of all, you are very strong for coming out and speaking about it. Being molested by a family member is heartbreaking. But you know what you trusted your ex and told him everything but he used it against you. Now from this incident you know what kind of a guy he is. To be frank, just let go of this relationship even though I know it's not going to be easy for you but that's what I would have done if I
ReplyBut that's what I would have done if I were in your place. Now your worth sweetheart. You are very strong of a person! Don't let anyone pull you down.
ReplyThank you.. I am trying my best to keep my head up.
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