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How you coped up with the loss of your close ones?
I've never been to the funeral of my loved ones due to really convincing and valid reasons. I've never felt the pain to see my loved ones dead in front of my own eyes. I've never comforted someone who needed me.
Trust me it's not what I wished for or wanted. I always wanted to be with them in last time. But due to really unexpected situations I was never able to do that. It is such a pain to live with this regret and guilt of not being there. I'm lost, broken and guilty. Unavoidable situations always haunt me. I feel I'm such a loser. Pls tell me how shld I handle my unstableness due to this. I'm lost and sad. It really gives immense pain to never be able to see them for last time. It is so unfortunate. I wish no one ever gets this type of fortune like mine.
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Hi, I may not be able to help and I can’t tell you how you should handle any situation, but all I can offer is some advice. Instead of thinking of all the things you didn’t do for that person who needed you think of all the good times you spent together. I mean, yes maybe you weren’t there for them in their final moments, but you were in their living ones. You got to make happy memories with them and you got to laugh and dance and live with them. Don’t harbour too much on the negatives but think more positively. You never truly lose loved ones. They live on in the stories we tell, the memories we keep and in your beating heart.
Take care.
ReplyHey there! Thank you so much for your kind words. I would take this advice and be more positive towards this situation. Thanks again
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