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Hello there! this is my first time posting on this website I just wanted to write down this experience that I will never forget. So my family usually likes to go over to my aunts house every once and a while to stay for a week or two just for fun. My parents leaves us there and goes back to the house while my brothers and I stay at my aunts. During this time my Grandma came along with us and she slept in the basement. It was fun hanging out with my cousins who were around 7 and 4 years old at that time I believe. However that fun wouldn’t last for long. Night struck and I was sharing a room with my cousins. I was at the top bunk with my 4 year old cousin who laid the opposite side of the bed from me. This bunk bed had a little staircase to climb up. My cousin was the one who laid by the stair case while I laid close to the wall. I was getting ready for bed I tried closing my eyes to rest but this ended in me not being able to sleep. The mattress was a bit uncomfortable and the room was kind of too hot felt like there was no air conditioning in there. I wasn’t use to sleeping in a bunk bed. So for hours and hours I kept trying to close my eyes to sleep but to no avail. I was restless till around 3 am or so I believe. I turned facing the wall and tried to get some rest. Until I heard a door creaking open. I thought “Who could be awake at this time?” I heard their footsteps. Someone walked down the hall and went into the bathroom. And soon after they went back to their room. I thought it must of been one of my brothers who slept in a room nextdooe to my aunt and her husband. Once again I tried to sleep. Many minutes passed and I still couldn’t sleep and yet again I hear a door creaking open. But this time they didn’t go to the bathroom they went straight directly to my cousins room where I was at. The door was wide open so they just walked in. At that moment I pretended to sleep worried that my aunt would catch me awake. But it didn't seem like it was my aunt. My face was facing the wall so of course I couldnt take a peek at who it was. I was legit scared to be honest. Then suddenly I felt a hand touching my freaking bum and they also touch the you know where part. At this point I was like wtf. I was 11 years old by the way at the time. They kept doing this for a few minutes and left back to their room. I was very shocked and scared and didn’t have the courage to confront whoever it was. I thought about how it would be awkward if I did confront them. It was gross how someone could do that to an 11 year old. I started suspecting who it was. I know it wasn’t my brothers cuz why would they. That left my aunt and her husband. I eliminated my aunt from my suspicions and that left her husband. Lets call the husband A-hole, he doesn’t deserve a name. A-hole had to be the one doing these dirty acts I suspected. Who else could it be I thought. So for a few more nights this happened, I still didn't have the courage for confrontation. So I tried many tactics for A-hole to stop the harassment. I faced my back to the wall and had the blanket cover my whole body. This worked most of the times. All of this happened while I was pretending to sleep. I couldn’t sleep after it happened the first time. Heres how I knew it was my aunts husband. This one time A-hole climbed up the staircase that led up to the top bunk and harassed me WHILE my 4 year old cousin(who shared the top bunk with me) was sleeping. My cousin did wake up but A-hole hushed them back to sleep. He made weird grunting noises. I was extremely disgusted and hatred filled my mind, I wanted to push him off a cliff. But alas, I didn’t have the courage I was such a scaredy cat. Another time this happened. A-hole was about to get ready to do his disgusting act again but my grandma who was sleeping in the basement downstairs opened the basement door to take a bathroom break. This saved me. A-hole got scared it seemed and ran back to his room. After that it didn’t seem like he would do that thing again. I was able to get rest for the last few days. I told my brothers about this but I changed some details. I said someone came into the room and touched me and told them I suspected A-hole but they didn’t believe me. They said it was a ghost. After that I started doubting myself. Was it really a ghost or was it actually A-hole. After all that I finally came home and felt the comfort of my bed. I was happy to be out of my aunts house. That disgusting guy has a creepy face now that I think about it. Anyways, present day and we haven’t been to my aunts house in a long time. I have yet to tell my mom that I was harassed because I felt like she wouldn’t believe me. And I don’t want my aunt to divorce that A-hole because I know my lil cousins will ask where their dad is. Please note he didn’t do anything further besides touch me. I just want to hear people’s thoughts on this and what they would of done and if anyone has a similar story to this. If you read this far thank u for reading this :)!
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Im so sorry this happened to you, you didn't deserve it, nothing you could have done condoned it, people do love you and want to help. What happened to you wasn't right, I was raped at 23 by a person I trusted and put my security in. I reported the crime but never wanted to pursue charges, so I didn't. They told me that way if any other girl was touched by him they would know there's suspected history, and believe her. I didn't put my rapist away but it kinda helped me to know other girls were safer from him. You should know u have options. He probably has done it to other children because it was so nonchalant to him, I would worry about any kids living with him being assaulted as he experimented. You don't have to tell anyone that you don't trust if ur scared -there is another great anonymous assault resource R.A.I.N they have phone calls where you can work out what this event did to you, or offer u free counseling, and if u ever do want to safely pursue reporting or charges they can send a companion to talk to police along side you. Cause lets face it police can be scary, and having a person who is on ur side helps a ton. Lol. Your not alone though, and even strangers legit care to never see you be harmed
ReplyMotivations could encompass mental health issues from physical or mental deformity via injury or genetic mutation, and emotions can get distorted. I met someone who was attracted to the very young. He was emotionally stable, the wires in his mind were overlapping. He associated admiration and expressive emotions often seen in younger individuals as being more genuine displays of love. He attempted to start a healthy relationship with a woman his age, and things were going well, but he still liked the admiration of someone way younger. I observed stress was hurting his closeness to his partner, so he interpreted his lack of stress in his former interest as desirable. He was being closely monitored, psychologists and psychiatrists aiding in the background while being supported by a loving family. As for your uncle, he could have had issues in his marriage, or in his mind, that distorted family ties into infatuation on a taboo matter. Many mental health issues go unnoticed and untreated, which is hard on everyone. It was not right of him to do that to you, regardless of his mental faculties.
Replyoh, we have the same problem. I didnt want to put him to jail so my cousins will have a dad, but atleast you know what to do next.
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