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i'm sorry if i am bad at english but, i feel like i am not important. it's the same thing every year. i feel like i'm going in circles. i make friends, we get close but then, something happens and we never talk again. i don't know if it's me or if it is normal. i feel like i can change and i do change. every year i am a different me. but it doesn't feel like i am getting better either.
i mean, is there something wrong with me or do these kind of thing happen all the time. every year i make friends and we get close and we tell each other everything but then, out of nowhere, these friends i made make a group with each other and don't include me. they stop talking to me. i want to talk about it. i want to talk to them and my life but they don't talk to me at all, at least when they are together. when they are separate, they talk to me like it's normal, so i do the same. are they ashamed of talking to me and hide it from each other?
i always lose a friend. i eat alone. i talk to no one and no one is talking to me.
couple days ago was my birthday and almost no one celebrated it.
happy birthday to me.
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you should definitely NOT think that its your fault that they arent wanting to be you friends. some people are deceiving and only want to be friends to use you or make fun of you. you just have to find the right group of people and trust in them. dont worry youll have a close friend group soon! happy late birthday tho! <3
ReplyHAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! 🎉
Okay now that I got that out of the way...
As much as I hate to say it, every year a new friend joins my friend group and every year we lose someone due to too much fighting or whatever. Here's what I think you should do: talk to them. Tell them how you're feeling and ask why. I hate to have to say this, but quite often I become very close with 1 person in my group of friends and the other ones always get away from me in some way. I don't ever purposefully ignore the person, or try to hurt them in any way. If you think this is the case with you, maybe try to do something fun with them in order to get closer. However, I do NOT under any circumstances think they are ashamed of you. That is just paranoia. I think if they are still talking to you, even if it is separately, that is a good sign. But, if you find out they're talking about you behind your back, do not hesitate to stand up for yourself. Unless you did something to hurt them purposefully, you do not deserve to be treated like that.
It could also be that one of them (or both) are mad at you for some unknown reason, but are trying not to show it. This happens all the time with my friends. I would recommend just talking to them; asking what's up. Good luck!
ReplyHey cheer up! Its never your fault that some people wouldnt like you at all. It sounds like you are. Sweet and caring person. If they dont talk to you then so be it. Someday time will come tht youll meet people who would totally give you the same love, care, and good intentions. Happy Birthday ♥️
ReplyI have experienced this before, I really thought I had a problem but the more you try cling on them, the more things get worse, just be yourself, live your life your way and the right people will come and stay. Those are not meant to be in your life so the more you force the more you get hurt, no one in this world was meant to be lonely its just that we have different timings
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