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sometimes i just feel like my family doesnt understand that i hurt as well. i also get upset.
every time an argument happens they always go comfort her while im left alone.
we're both in the wrong but i get shouted at and she gets comforted.
just because i dont show my emotions doesnt mean i dont feel anything.
they dont understand that i also get upset, i also cry
but because ive always been the 'strong' one i have to carry on that image
i dont need comfort according to them as im fine, im 'strong'
i am strong but sometimes you just need that reassurance that yes we do also care about how you're feeling. you're not alone.
but i always feel like i am.
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talk to them tell them how you're feeling, I know it's hard to let it out but how do you expect them to know if you don't show it, just point it out when you find a chance for example: " you know it hurts me too not only her ! " or "I know am the strongest but I too felt hurt ". you don't have to be strong, keeping everything inside will only torment you without them knowing a single thing
put your feelings into actions instead of hiding them, cry whenever you want, talk it out, it will help you let go of those feelings you had and ease up the pain you felt cause hiding them will only make you live those incidents over and over again instead of letting go
ReplyI can somewhat relate with this. But this will help you to shine in your life.
Replyyeah, i understand that once we are put into "roles" and seen in those roles we're stuck in them, at least to some people's eyes. You are multifaceted person. you can be strong and vulnerable, nothing wrogn with that. i hope they acknowledge the full you and show care too. best of luck.
ReplyParents discriminating amongst the children is the worst. They should never take sides. But they do. Mine have even gone ahead and accused me of being jealous of my sibling whenever we fought during teenage times just because they think she is better than me. In looks, that's it. Because I m not fair or have a round face like her. Indian beauty standards of my parents. I have cried myself to sleep many nights. Even now, I shudder at the thought of those bygone times.
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