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My best friend use to be best friends with this other girl, let’s call her Aly. Aly is literally psychotic, she stalks people, sends random people all her money, uses everybody in her life, creates new numbers and social media accounts to contact the people that have blocked her and way more. My best friend and Aly had a falling out a while ago. Or so I thought. Aly has done nothing but hurt my best friend and make her life miserable. Yet, sh still texts her and talks to her all the time. Even though she’s told me a million times that she has blocked Aly and cutting her off, she lies every time and never has. Aly broke up our friend group not too long ago and made one of my other friends turn on me and way more stuff. Idk what to do about my best friend though because I’m sick of Aly and can’t do anything when my best friend tells me another messed up thing Aly has done. Please help
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Well if she's your "best friend" she wouldn't lie to you about aly for one. You can't control who your best friend is friends with. I guess either tolerate her short comings or stop talking to her. Maybe you need to have a talk with her about aly. Friends are really hard to find so dont get rid of her unless you think you absolutely have to. Aly sounds very toxic and i can see how her behavior broke up your friend group. Idk it depends on how much you value your best friend and they value you also in your decisions. If they respect you the could stop talking about aly with you imo. Hope it works out for you.
ReplyThis sounds like your bf is using Aly as her amusement and is more interested in doing this than being your proper best friend. She finds Aly interesting because of the crazy things she does. So You might be better off to find another bf.
ReplyI have gone through something similar except I was friends with a direct Aly. They're not true and people surrounding them are tangled in the mess and pushed into a toxic relationship. If you've tried everything and your best friend has lied and wont stop or listen then it isn't worth it. There better people out there. good luck
ReplyThis comes across more of what an experienced psychotic hacker would do, than your friend but okay.
I will say that I find it hard to believe that this friend of yours is doing this. These days horrible people can impersonate you online and defame you just by hacking into your device and personal account to make it appear like it's you.
How do we know that this is true?
It doesn't make any sense with what you're saying here and it seems too good to be true. There's alot of gaps to your story and what you're saying about what someone else is potentially doing.
Is there vaild proof that your friend is actively stalking people? Have you checked if their not photoshopped into pictures or something?
Were they always like this and behaving this way? What happened and why the sudden change of behavior, are you sure it's them doing this? Considering you know your friend really well, you normally pick up on how your close friends are and know that something isn't right. Supposedly you seem to know alot about them and shouldn't be difficult to know the answer to that.
Why would this person be stalking people?
People who are actual stalkers have a motive, what is the motive really behind it all and if you know about it, why the hell haven't you gone to police about it?
This I have to question too, why would your friend send random money to strangers because that doesn't make any sense at all. For someone to just "give" money for free to strangers?
What is she exactly doing where she is using everyone in her life?
Have you spoken to her family directly about it, directly in person?
You guys are close, right?
Have you actually spoken to this person face to face about their issue?
If this person is out of control hurting themselves and people, call the police for the staking. Talk to their family and get them the help they actually need because what you say is true afterall, right?
You seem to care about both of your friends, then do something about it.
_-Jas
ReplyIm sorry and I know exactly how this feels. I can say from experience that if you dont tell her you dont like Aly, then nothing will change, and if she calls a heartless bitch or something like that then say something along the lines of im sorry thats how you feel, but im not gonna be forced around someone i dont like and im always still your friend.
ReplyDROP HER RIGHT NOW! you should never be friends with someone so toxic. She doesn't deserve any friends and maybe if she fixes her self there is a possibility she can go find NEW friends.
ReplyIf she's lying to you and especially if she's friends with someone who she knows tried to mess up your life in such a way then she's not your friend. Friends stick up for each other and she sounds like she enjoys the chaos this other girls causes more than she appreciates you. Doesn't seem like you get anything out of this friendship except negativity so it seems like you should sever ties. You could try talking to her first and express how you feel, but if she continues as is regardless then you have your answer.
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