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In the first year we met, i was immediately drawn to him. He had a bright aura and he made me laugh a lot. We continued as friends until the end of that year until we decided to confess to each other. Things escalated from there and we had something going on but then he left for year for exchange so we never made anything official. I waited for him for the entire year and never made any move or looked at any other guy in that way. I waited for him because i really really like him. When he came back, something changed. Our conversations weren't like before and we were talking less and less. We became official at the start of this year and began dating but nothing really changed. Our communication was lacking on both parts. I brought it up to him twice but after the second time, i think he gave us up. We recently broke up and it doesn't really seem to affect him in any way. I feel stupid for blindly waiting for some guy for a whole year. I feel stupid for crying ten times in one day over this guy and i feel stupid for still wanting to get back together with him. He was my first boyfriend and now my heart physically aches. I keep crying. I can't do anything at all. I can't eat, I can't concentrate. All i can think about is 'what if things were different' or whether it is too late to fix anything. I still really like him and i don't know how to move on.
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Hello dear,
I can feel what exactly you are going through, I too went through a similar phase recently and even now overcoming it.
I know you have lots of questions to which you are searching for answers, which he probably will never answer.
You may have this question if he ever really loved you?
Let me tell you few men don't mind playing with words to get through what they want.
He probably might have never been serious about you or might have had you as an option, I know this hurts but this could be a possibility.
What I would say is don't wait for him, you already waited for a year,was it worth, don't you think you deserve better.
Will all this what you are going through matter after 10 years from now.
Don't let this guy destroy your studies or career.
You have to come out of it.
We girls often get emotionally attached to that one person and they become our world.
This is wrong, our focus in life should not just be our partner, there's a world outside relationship.
I know people and friends will tell you to move on, and its really hard to move on whom you loved so much and have put all your energy to,but you have to .
And only you can do it, you have lived your life before he came into your life, so you can live futher too.
Get a hobby, listen to music, if you have a bestie talk to them about this, release this negativity out of you.
Right now the focus must be only you, what you can do to get yourself on track and be happy.
Stay happy and blessed dear, you will be fine soon ,it's just a matter of time.
Take care.😊
ReplySee the thing is.... You need to move on.... You gave your best to save the relationship and he didn't... It happens. But a relationship lasts long only when theres mutual attraction right.... You are unique and lovely and you will of course get someone better on the way.... All you need to do is pick yourself up and move on cause you deserve better.
ReplySis, if it doesn't affect him then there's nothing left of him. Learn to let go, take it as a lesson and not a mistake. And lastly, you deserve better!
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