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Is it wrong to have an independent life being 25yrs. I work whole day, morning 6am to night 12pm on various projects. I dont have personal life , upon that i live with my grandmother who always talks ill about me. Is it wrong to talk with opposite gender on work purpose, i believe it is not as far as work is concerned, but the way she thinks is very bad, she is kind of orthodox. She doesnot let me go anywhere, I dont know any other place except workplace and home. Feeling suffocated and sometimes i feel like dying living with her. I tried to change her thoughts, but failed miserably. Being a employed women with some independent thoughts i feel like suppressed always. I want to live my life on my norms. She says you can roam anywhere after marriage. Is marriage the only criteria which defines women freedom.Also i am not taking any kind of independence as granted and doing wrong things, i am educated and i know how to live , what should be done what not should be. How can i break all the stereotypes. Also as i busy working, the work at home must be shared by the people in house so my uncle(father's brother has to do some household chores), but she always thinks that a boy should never undertake the work at home, so always scolds me in those terms too..... these are some examples. Also i dont have anyone to talk with me, no one cares for me, no one asks me whether i ate, died....since my childhood i am always tired of all the kinds of nonsense happening in the house. my mom doesnot live with me, she lives with her mother, she is so liberal and open minded unlike my grandmother. I feel like going to her and live with her, but she and my paternal uncle doesnot like the idea itself, I AM FEELING DEPRESSEDDDDDDD WITH THIS KIND OF ENVIRONMENT, WANT TO LIVE, WANT TO BREATHE, ELSE SOMEDAY I WILL DIE WITH SUFFOCATION
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Hey, even if they don't like it. You have your right to make decisions ok? You are 25 freaking adult. Dont even think they are sometimes nice and all either. Just do what you want to do.
You Live only once get this opportunity and go live with your mother. you will literally thank your own self to made this difficult decision. talk to your mother. tell her how do you feel . let her know all your problems. plz do this. You must. This time will never ever gonna repeat okay?
ReplyThank you suha, even i am thinking on the same lines, i told my mom about my situation, she says grandma raised you since you are kid, don't try to spoil her health my raising your voice against her. She also said after covid-19 she is gonna find a new house for us and will take me, but i am not sure whether my grandma sends me, I am also scared about her health, if something happens to her because of me then everyone will treat me ill, this is what my mom is also concerned about. Also my mom and grandma are not on talking terms. She is continually scolding me since the time i told about leaving the house, cursing me ..... i am not sure how to tackle this situation, if something happens to her because of my doings i think everyone will start seeing me as a bad person( i am not concerned about it). But i am not sure, confused about the situation
ReplyYeah you are right. Only a person who is going throught that situation would understand. But you know giving you an opinion as a other person who is trying to understand the situation from away it really helps. Because sometimes a victim is confused about their own situation like what should i do? right?
So coming to your problem -- Because of this pandemic there is no way but to wait yeah.. So after this look for the better opportunity and free yourself then... Hope you have peaceful days..don't be depressed either. Your Youthful days will never come later
Try to enjoy even if you can't. Gradually you will get used to it And you will never know how did you became happier. It's my experience.
If I can do it a brave thing like you can do it too..goodBye..
ReplyYeah you are right. Only a person who is going throught that situation would understand. But you know giving you an opinion as a other person who is trying to understand the situation from away it really helps. Because sometimes a victim is confused about their own situation like what should i do? right?
So coming to your problem -- Because of this pandemic there is no way but to wait yeah.. So after this look for the better opportunity and free yourself then... Hope you have peaceful days..don't be depressed either. Your Youthful days will never come later
Try to enjoy even if you can't. Gradually you will get used to it And you will never know how did you became happier. It's my experience.
If I can do it a brave thing like you can do it too..goodBye..
ReplyThank you suha, you are the only person of relief with whom i am able to openly share my problem...when ever i text you..it gives me sense of relief that there is also a person who is thinking like me and appreciating my thoughts about life, Thanks once again....for being with me
ReplyYeah... ALWAYS!!!
When you are aware of what is going on in your life. I think that moment you have won half of the battle....
Take care of yourself. You are nice too... And thanks for all of the above compliments...😊
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