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I feel like the only one with this problem. I don't want to be in a relationship. I don't like the commitment. I would lose interest in the person after a while. I would get annoyed of them eventually. It's just the person I am. I like being alone. I prefer to be alone. I like not talking to anyone.
But I want to be in a relationship. I think it would be fun. To hang out with your best friend most every day. Someone to console you, a person that is a constant reminder that you are loved.
I spend most days in my room, alone, but when I sleep I hug a pillow, It reminds me of a person, It's a nice comfortable feeling. Most days I wake up still holding it. I avoid unnecessary contact with people. Parties, gatherings, people asking to hang out. I just don't feel like talking to them. I don't feel like entertaining them.
I don't want to be around people. I'm lonely. I'm not sure what to do.
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If you were to be in a relationship with someone you would push them away, or find a reason to break up with them. Perhaps casual dating is more your style so that you don't feel hemmed in. You might be like me. My priorities are happiness, independence, and freedom. I was married and that was annoying and claustrophobic. Try a dating app and meet people who don't want to be serious with anyone.
ReplyHi,
I guess you are ready for the relationship (friendship or deeper than that) but you are occupied with your fears. You are a introvert and there is nothing bad in that, people like you are rare to find. And it is natural for you to find it difficult to make one good friend, because people fail to meet your level of closeness and kindness.
Give yourself time and accept yourself for what you are, you will eventually attract people.
Replywhen you love someone truly, beyond infatuation, you don't get bored of them in the teenage sense of the word. yea you might get on each others' nerves but after a certain age/phase maybe after you've met a soulmate or have felt something pretty close all you want is that familiar. you be obsessed with that indescribable feeling like Nizar Qabbani is obsessed with titties and you won't want anything less.
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