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I like a guy I've know for around 8 years. We almost dated. I literally pushed him away due to personal reasons but I'm still not over him. We started texting around February but I can't tell if he likes me or not. He doesn't reply fast and neither does he take forever. He is very difficult to read. I wish I could meet him, that is the only way to figure out. Can someone tell me what to do? If I should tell him to meet up, there is nothing open right now. So, all we can do is go for a drive. If you think I should meet up with him; Can you tell me how to text him that? Or what should I text him to know if he likes me? I have zero idea on how to go on about this. Thank you so much.
p.s He is not someone I met online.
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you need to meet up with him
ReplyYou should try FaceTiming him. You can be relaxed in your own home and leave when ever you want if things get awkward.
Starting off with something like “hey wyd, Want to ft ?” Keep the convo light at first with general questions like what he did and what he ate, his opinion on what he thinks you should cook or should watch on Netflix/tv. Then throw in a random yet subtle compliment about his shirt or something about how he looks. See how he reacts, if it’s positive then deep dive into the real question. You can start off with a “I wanted to see where your head is at about us” “ how do you feel about us ?” And go from there. But it really depends on the vibe you two have on face time. This can also work in person but you won’t be able to escape lol
Replyhonestly i think you should just go for it, but not sounding desperate. Maybe ask him if he would just like to go for a drive to a nearby outdoorsy place. talk to him maybe through in hints to him that you are into him, you will know it when he shows you but honestly people over text can be mysterious. Some people might be the most loving person ever and the life of the party but text slow and dry. You never really know until it is straight up said.
ReplyI was thinking about asking him if he would like to go for a drive. But I'm 90% sure he will turn me down. I've dropped many hints and I don't know if he understood lol
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