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I've spent 3 years with my current boyfriend. I've given all I have to the relationship and it has been up and down for a long time. He cheated more than once, breaking up and coming back, me moving in and out like a call-girl. He has kids and an ex-wife. Although it's like we are married and I am a step-mom, we aren't and he straight up told me we "aren't family" in the past. I've fought for the good things we do have and the lifestyle we share... but right now I 100% realize there are a lot better men out there. Faithful, loving, kind, fun partners. I appreciate my boyfriend for all he is, but the infidelity and honestly his blatant disrespect toward me, the emotional/mental abuse has ruined the relationship. Things are actually pretty good for us right now... I don't know if we will hit our low again. Regardless, I feel like leaving... I'm burnt out from being the only one giving to the relationship. At the same time I can't, I feel guilty. Help? Advice? Thank you.
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you should leave him. he sounds toxic and the relationship is draining you and stopping you from having the happiness you deserve. it'll be hard and all but you will move on. everyone does. people doe and life still goes on. just find yourself someone who will love you and respect you and is willing to give to the relationship as much as you do. you have no reason to feel guilty. you tried your best to save the relationship and even constantly forgave his cheating ass. he ain't the one sis. never compromise your happiness for someone who's got no respect for you. you only got one life. so leave him when it isn't too late.
ReplyHe seems like he wants a mother to his children more than a partner. In a relationship you shouldn't feel like you are taking all the burdens on your shoulder, and honestly you deserve better. You deserve someone that treats you like a queen. NEVER settle for less girl, hope you find some relief to your problem.
ReplyCut your losses and leave. Three years is enough. Don't let it be three decades. You won't regret it. When and if you find someone better, you'll be so glad you made the decision sooner than later. You'll thank your lucky stars.
ReplyLeave him when things are good as it will hit even even harder. He deserves it for the infidelity he's put you through.
ReplyTell him how you feel. If he doesnt apologize or want to change find someone else. If hed told me were not family idve been gone long ago. He lacks respect it seems. Its just gonna keep hurting you imo. You're choice though whatever you thinks best.
ReplyHe sounds like a real jerk. He isn't worth it.
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