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I have this constant fear my boyfriend is cheating on me. Things have been going kind of great and we've been together longer than I have ever dared to dream of, and yet every day I find myself doubting him. I'm generally insecure and I guess my last boyfriend cheating on me for months hasn't really helped. I try not to show it, still when I do he's actually flattered, because he's very jealous himself and he feels reciprocated. But this is not me. I've never been jealous and I don't wanna be. What do I do?
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You have to know jealousy is somewhat ok but not too much you are jealous bcz u had past experiance its ok to be that way but u need to understand he is with you and if you feel it too much you can discuss it with him bcz its conversation that makes a good relationship
ReplyYou're right, we should talk about it more often perhaps but it just doesn't feel like it's helping, i feel like it actually got worse over time and I don't know why. So frustrating!!
ReplyI would recommend talking it out, try to release that stress by thoroughly mentioning how you feel, let him do the same thing. Listen and try to connect, I hope it helps, I've been through the same.
ReplyAgh, I read the comment above, ask him how he feels towards you, and tell him how you feel. Try to relieve that tension.
Replytime. that’s the only thing that can strengthen trust. i have a lot of trust issues due to my last boyfriend but now that i’m with someone new, i feel at ease. of course there’s always the possibility that your significant other can cheat on you. you need to know them very well and learn how they are in order for that level of trust to take place. let me know if this helps!
Replytime. that’s the only thing that can strengthen trust. i have a lot of trust issues due to my last boyfriend but now that i’m with someone new, i feel at ease. of course there’s always the possibility that your significant other can cheat on you. you need to know them very well and learn how they are in order for that level of trust to take place. let me know if this helps!
ReplyI think you need to start loving yourself enough first to feel that there is no need to get jealous abt the party by overcoming your own fear of getting cheated and having self confidence. If that person cheated on you, that does not mean that there is a problem with you. That just means that, he has a problem with himself to stay true to himself. So build your self confidence and do not bring other people down in the process by having constant doubts on the other person as its not healthy and it may change to having a toxic relationship. So stay true to yourself.
ReplyYou might be mirroring his jealousy. Jealousy *can* be a sign that 'they' are themselves willing to cheat, whether consciously or not.
ReplyThat's what we always argue about. He always assumes I'm gonna be doing something sketchy or that I will be jealous, and it makes ME suspicious. Also while he's a lot of fun he's not the most reliable person in general, so that doesn't help either (like he says a lot of white lies and he's always late and stuff). Sometimes I think we're not meant for each other but then again I love him so much. I guess we'll have to work on it, together and individually, and see if it gets better with time. It just feels like I'm doing most of the work and it pisses me off sometimes
ReplyThank everyone by the way, you've been lovely :*
ReplyPoor assumptions. White lies. Not enough respect to either be on time or let you know in good timing (??).
Sorry. I do not think he is something you should invest much of yourself in any more. Give as many as chances as you like. Please do not put up with being burnt much more.
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