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(Ghosted after sex with a married man going through a separation who convinced me things between us felt ‘right’)
I hope you find the courage and clarity to fully live the life you want to live without it being at the expense of others. The stint of time I had with you taught me a lot that I wish you made an effort to know. And it is crucial for my own sense of closure to know what it was that you experienced instead of trying to fill in the gaps with my own assumptions. Honestly, I am scarred with deepened trust issues and realize I need better judgment with being vulnerable.
However, I see your humanity as a person navigating their own journey. I own my part as someone who wanted to believe in the significance of connectedness and acted out of passion, curiosity, and impatience. And I own that I projected some of myself and my situation onto you and yours because I felt so connected and mirrored. I should’ve clarified where we were both at, but I took the time and my understanding of what it was for granted.
I’d like to believe that I could still accept your truth and appreciate you even though I feel you’ve treated me like trash. I’m used to loving men like you - the person I lost my virginity to, the love of my life, my daughter’s father, my absent father, and you are all Libras.
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