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So don't get me wrong i love my boyfriend i really do but i am having doubts. So i have met this amazing guy and he worships me, i have never ever felt so secure in a relationship before and i really do have a lot of love for him. The problem? i really dont know what it is, for some reason i just dont feel as into the relationship as i was and theres no spark. I only recently started noticing as i would much prefer to do something with my friends than with him.
Also an old friend of mine messaged me and ive had a crush on him for so long (but he doesnt see me that way) messaged me and asked how i was and i wanted to talk to him straight away. why dont i feel like that with my boyfriend anymore?
please help. what should i do...
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I think you should dump both. The texting guy is not into you, and I have ended so many relationships due to lack of spark. Find someone freash and new. It will help you. Good luck!
ReplyBecome ok with your thoughts and emotions, dear.
You can choose to run because the spark seems gone. You can make every excuse you'd like.
But the bottom line is that you're about to sacrifice something good, for the sake of your feelings.
You see, love isn't about being happy. Love is difficult and it is messy and it requires sacrifice.
So what will you sacrifice? Him? Or your romanticized version of what love actually is?
Nothing and no one can tell you what you should do. Only you can decide that and if you choose to, you will love him beyond the initial spark.
It's natural for that spark to fade. So you can go chase a new spark, if you'd like. But don't go expecting a spark to last forever.
Oh and, along the way. Should you choose to walk away, just be honest. Don't try to blame it on him or suggest it's his fault. Because it's yours.
So by all means, keep chasing that Hollywood romance. Or you can take a moment to step back and grow up. Your choice.
ReplyThank you this has helped a lot!
ReplyWhat I Do At A Job I Want To Leave. Is First Look For Another Job, Then Leave My Old Job. I'm Kidding (Not About The Job Thing Though). You Should Communicate With The Dude. Communication Is Key. Tell Him What's Up. And If He Doesn't Change In A Month Or Less. Drop Him Like It's Hot.
Reply"Pick the second guy because you wouldn't be in love with the second man if you were in the love with the first." - unknown
It sounds like your relationship with your current boyfriend sounds dead and you should end it before it gets messy. But try talk it out with your boyfriend and not dump him without talked-out closure. You shouldn't be hung up on one guy when you have yet to explore more. Hope it works out!
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