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ok soo.. Hi! :) i dont know why im writing this.. i just need an advice about my relationship with my bf. Before i start writing : I apologize for my english, it s not my first language.
I met him on instagram in september. Since then we talk every day. Until we saw each other i didnt know what he looked liked. When i saw him,i have to admit,i didnt like him. I liked the way he behaved and his sense of humour. We became a couple 4 months after we met. At first everything was beautiful, but when we didnt see eachother we contradicted all the time. When we went out we laughed and felt good. After 5 months of relationship we had an argument. He kept saying things like I didnt love him and i didnt care.Even though I lied to my parents to see him. He was allowed to be jealous and I wasnt. I talked to him about it,he said that he loves me, he wants a future with me,and he s sorry and he wants to change. I forgave him. because at the beginning of the relationship i promised him that we would be together for a long time and i didnt want to hurt him. After that I asked for his phone to see his reaction and he didnt want to give it to me. In the end,he gave it to me. But when i wanted to enter the gallery,he took it from me. I said ok and got over it. But today he called me,and i didnt feel like talking idk why. All I was saying was yes and no. After an hour i started talking but now he was upset. I told him that i was sorry and he should understand because he also has moments when he does the same to me. He told me something had to happen because he was feeling too great. He made a joke about the fact that he cant see me because of my parents and i was uspet. After he asked me what the hell did he did to me. I told him why i was upset and he apologized. We didnt talk for an hour until he sent me a tiktok about women having a boob bigger than other. I told him i knew it and he told me if he can see it. I told him no and then he told me that now he understands why i make pictures from profile (to highlight the bigger boob) i laughed and i said him no. After that we talked about different things like nothing happened and everything was ok. I told him that i m going to sleep and he said ok.
One of my friends says that i should break up with him because she thinks that this is a toxic relationship.
75% of me wants to do this,but i dont want to hurt him. I think that i make mistakes too. He isnt always like that, we have moments when we feel great together.
if you ve read all this, thank you so so much! I want to hear your opinion.
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ReplyDear you,
Hope you are doing great .
I am glad that you are very honest and open. So, let's talk about it now. Is this your first relationship?.
Think of the reasons why you like only him and no body else.Is he really worth it? Do you strongly believe that he is willing to do anything for you(Not by words, go by the actions). Do you really feel like he loves you(100%)?. Get to know his true intentions(It is very important now a days.we can't trust anybody).Do some background research on him. Honesty is very important in relationships. Get to know him more. Mistakes do happen in a relationship, but figure out how often do they happen and why. If at all something happens, then who will be the first to convince and try to get out of it.
Lastly, what i want to convey is : If being with him makes you happy, then continue the same , but draw some boundaries , See how he reacts and continue further based on that. If he's really good ,
then well and good, u can trust him. Firstly, make all your doubts get cleared. If he doesn't turn out to be .. then also well and good , he is just one among 3.7 billion males in the world :|). There are so many out there.
Hope it helps. good luck.
ReplyThank you so so sooo much!! You re wonderful, your comment helps me a lot! <3
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