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I need to end it with my best friend. She's a year younger than me which is probably most of the problem. It's not her fault that she feels jealous of me but well yeah I sorta is. she's fake and I'm just so done don't get me started. She likes to chip away at my insecurities in a way where she sounds nice. And she's never there for me when I need someone to talk to about my problems even though I'm there for her. I literally put myself out there and mid-sentence she'll JUST START TALKING ABOUT SOMETHING ELSE.
The problem is my friend group consists of my best friend's sister and her best friend and two other guys who are friends with my best friend's family. Basically, If I tell her we can't be BFFs anymore they'll all take her side and I won't have ANY friends. Plus I really like my other friends, more than I even like my best friend. I've never ended it with a best friend before. How do I do this and keep my friend group?
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From what I read it sounds like the poster has decided that it is their choice to end the relationship rather than talk with their "best friend" and continue the relationship.
ReplyThat sounds like a tough situation. You could try to start avoiding her, but if you ask the others to hang out without her it probably won't go well. I mean, they might hang out but drama will ensue.
You may have to leave this whole friend group and find a new one. :$
ReplyFriends come and go. I never really understood what exactly that meant til I started being my own person. Friends really do come and go and unfortunately, theres not much we can do about that. Just hold those memories close and cherish them. Learn to separate memories from people, I have found memories of many high school friends that didn't really have my best interests in mind. Good memories doesn't necessarily mean good people.
Friends come and go. Tuck those happy times away and know you need to move on. If all your friends will take her side, they aren't your friends, they're hers. High school is definitely a strange time. Theres times itll feel like everything is falling apart, but its really not. Those voices trying to drag you down will sound so small when your on your feet, better than before.
Cheers
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