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I recently realized that if people don't want to talk to me then I don't want to talk to them. I used to think about this a lot but I was never able to really feel that way. I would always text other people because I was lonely or bored and I didn't realize what I had without them. No reason to seek satisfaction from someone who would never be what I wanted them to be, and it was wrong of me to assume that they could be all I wanted. I've realized that I have all I need without them. I no longer care if they text me or want to talk to me. I no longer care and wonder why they never wanted me in the way I used to want them. I no longer try and put myself in situations where I know I will mess up my relationships with others. I am no longer interested in what might have been, only what is now. In the past I was never able to feel like I had all I needed, I never felt complete with what I have until now. I no longer feel like I am afraid to be with someone and fully commit to them. I used to be afraid of commitment because of being used and never being with the right person and only being with people who hurt me. Maybe that wasn't the reason, maybe the reason was because I never felt good enough to be with anyone so if something went wrong I would have someone else to fall back on. But I don't need anyone to fall back on anymore, I have found peace in myself, even if I mess up sometimes. I am enough even if I get sad or angry sometimes. I am enough, and maybe I don't feel that way always, maybe I break down sometimes still. But it's okay to cry and be upset as long as you get back up and keep fighting for yourself. No one else matters until you matter. I never used to understand the saying "you have to love yourself before you can love anyone else" until I began to love myself. I guess the way I see it is that if you can't love what you have and how you try and be better everyday, then how can you expect others to love you? You have to give yourself credit for how strong you an be even when you don't feel like trying anymore. Getting back up and fighting to be better is what makes someone strong. Sometimes you may need help but at the end of the day you are still here and you are still fighting, and that is enough. Even if you don't see it now I promise you that you are enough. I hope you know how amazing and wonderful you truly are.
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Thank you, I always find it extremely hard to love myself. I always tear up whenever I am reminded to try and accept myself as I am. It's hard. I don't know why, it's just so hard. But thank you for your post.
ReplyHow do you love yourself? I've always struggled with this
ReplyI suppose for me I may not always love myself all of the time. But I do remember that I am strong. I love myself because no matter what is going on in my life I am strong enough to still be here. I am strong enough to work through it, even if it hurts a lot. Sometimes when I am feeling bad about myself I have to remind myself to calm down and take a step back. I then think of what happened and how I can make myself better for my own reasons. I also began to realize what I like about myself, as in my personality. Your looks are not what define you as a person, all that matters is your personality. I know it is hard and I am sorry, but i promise it will get better. You are so strong as an individual and that is enough. I find that it is easiest to start by thinking about the aspects about yourself that you can tolerate and like.
ReplyHello, you are amazing, only the strong survive.... But we do have someone to fall back on GOD he is my best friend, no matter what I feel he will never let me down, first look at the sky, your body, our mind, the trees, wind, aw.. So please you are not alone, enjoy your moment.
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