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i was wondering if anyone had any advice for this thing i'm struggling with right now, i would be very thankful. i'm very, very anxious and stressed to start the new school year. last year i wasn't stressed at all, cause i still had my two friends to rely on. over the summer i feel like i've glided away from them even more, and they have their own friendgroups to rely on and so on. and i don't have anyone. i know they will still care about me and like talk with me in school, but it's not 100% and i'm definetly not the first friend choice.
i don't really have anything against being aloen, but in school it is way too humiliating. our school is so small, and without exaggerating, everyone seems to have a friend or some group they feel they belong in. i dont feel like i belong anywhere. and i don’t mean in a way that i'm some sort of antisocial ”different” kid. i'm an average blonde girl that gets good grades and so on. people see me as boring and that's probably why i don't attract anyone. my worst fear is that i will have to hide during lunch and breaks, i always used to go home or sit in the bathroom. and i don't want that anymore. i just want a friendgroup that i can rely on 100%.
i'm sorry that this text is so confusing, there's a lot to take in, but i just had to get it out. i think about it all the time. in a month i will be forced to go back. i just don't want to feel as misersble and pathetic as i did last school year.
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Am I correct in thinking that you're talking about high school? Oh god high school. The most important years of your life.
Get involved in your school. Join clubs. Do sports. Do anything that brings people together. Get to know your comrades. Blossom into a social butterfly and if that's not you then step out of your comfort zone. There's no easy way about this, but learning to approach and build comradery amongst your peers is essential for later life things.
I know it's not easy,but you have to put yourself out there for the world to see. Stay frosty
ReplyI've felt that way before too, to the point that I can't even get a good night sleep, wondering what my school days would be like. I'm kinda the loner type girl because I'm not that friendly and I don't even talk much to anybody unless they/I need some information, I just focus on studies, and spend time in the library alone. But being the way I am, I still managed to have some friends, and they were the ones who approached me first. I'm not saying that you should just relax because they will be the ones to come to you to be friends with, it's just that, people sometimes just happen to be your friends. Like it just happens. Haha well I don't know, 'cause even me myself can't remember how I got to be close to those guys, seeing myself just sitting in a corner gazing at the window.
Anyways, just be reminded that you should choose the right people to be close with, 'cause you know not everyone is to get along with. I've seen a lot of group of friends who hang out together, having fun and all, and then one day, one of them just comes crying saying that she can't handle to be with them anymore. I had only few friends like only 3 and they're the ones whom I could truly fist bump with.
One way of having friends I did was to join club (Campus Journalists Club ;)), and while working there, I had fun, being with my co-writers. Don't force yourself, instead, encourage yourself. Join school activities that you can enjoy, smiling could help too (but not for me, probably), and try to say "hi". And before you go to sleep, pray that you'll be able to find good friends at school (trust me, it helps). (^^)
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