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I work at the local Wal-Mart as a "customer host"... (read that as "over-glorified employee who says "what's up?" and "GTFO")
I have a really attractive coworker who I barely interact with because she normally leaves at 2:00 and I arrive at 1:00. I find it surprising that she actually enjoys talking to me... Somehow she finds me funny and just fun to be around... I really want to get to know her, but I'm scared to bring it up. I mentioned my attraction to a coworker last night (which was a Saturday), who said she'd tell our coworker she has a "secret admirer." So today (a Sunday) I brought it up with my coworker, who said the employee I'm interested in was surprised that she had a "secret admirer" and was curious as to the details of such a person...
I really would love to get to know this girl... She seems like an amazing person.
……. And here comes the problem. She's black. I'm white. That, within itself, is not the problem. The problem, which should not be, is with my stepdad. (As a side note, I was raised in a conservative Christian family, long line of such on both sides of my family, but my parents have never questioned the taste of me or my sisters, who both married Hispanic men. Rather, they've supported our interest in ethnicities outside "purely" Caucasian.)
--The concern I have with my stepdad is that he's SUPER conservative... Too much so, in my opinion, on certain issues... If/when he learns that I'm (hopefully one day) dating a black girl, I don't want him to lash out at my mom. Yes, I realize that many would believe that I just need to do what's best for me - which is wonderful advice... I just don't want my taste to be of detriment for my mom.
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I just really like this girl...
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You cannot do everything in life to please your mother. If you really want to please your mother don't ever date any black girl.
ReplyThis is touchy as I have no frame of reference. It may be of no help but I think when it comes up it has to be you to speak with this step dad. I get not wanting to bother them at all with this but things people are passionate about tend to escalate situations out of proportion so it's better to face it before the potential hypothetical is reality. God that was a bloated sentence
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