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I am madly in love with a married man, it's never been anything physical or sexual between us, he has been a very close friend of mine for a while now. We have spoken daily for at least 8 months now. He's been there for me through a very difficult time. I've noticed recently that he's stopped talking to me as much, he doesn't reply like he used to it's just the odd one liner.. it hurts me alot, I know I've fallen head over heels for him, I'm trying to keep my distance, I really am. But he's my friend and I'm missing him and our conversation so much!! He knows everything about me, and he's become apart of my routine. I really don't know what to do, I do not want to cut off contact, but is it hurting me more, realising he is slowly leaving me alone...
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Have sex with him,see if anything is there
ReplyWomen have literally been selling sex since the beginning of time; it's the oldest transaction in the history of the world, aka hookers, prostitutes, etc. There is nothing sacred about sex, unless it is a committed bond between 2 people.. which by design leads to intimacy free of disease and the most complex organism on earth potentially be created by this act that takes all of 2 minutes with no skills required, easier to make a human life than to make a bowl of cereal. Outside of a financial transaction or a committed bond between 2 people sex is arguably just carnal pleasure... add betrayal or adultery and it becomes a life altering event. Considering this man has a committed bond with someone else.... exchanging bodily fluids with him is probably a bad idea.
ReplyCut him off. No one deserves to be cheated on, emotionally or otherwise. He’s likely been emotionally cheating from what I can read from you sis. Move on, there’s more fish in the sea
ReplyHe might be staying faithful to his wife, or he has met someone else. You won't have to cut off contact because he will eventually do that. Then it will be over.
ReplyUnless he divorces or has an open relationship, leave him alone.
ReplyI think that you both may have been helping each other by talking as friends. It sounds completely platonic and he's married. Try to find someone that is not married to spend your time with. You sound like a good person. There is someone out there for you.
Reply,🥰😘😋sounds good but it's not good
ReplyPick your distance from him and let things flow. Invest in yourself. I know you are well aware of the nature of this relationship you have with him and that nothing good is to come out of it. I am sure you don't want to hurt his partner either, don't do to others what you don't want done to thee. Free your mind and do things that nourish your person. He knows so much of your life because you have allowed him in that doing of your intimate life. Take back what is yours, you are not a side toy and you are not for him to confide in when he has the time for it.
I hope you find the strength to find your way away from him. I am on the side of this individual partner. My wife would not put boundaries between her and a work colleague and guess what, I made her lie and changed the person she was. I am sure this is something you wouldn't want to experience this when you find that one person that makes you feel all the emotions at once. The one you want to spend the rest of your life with.
I hope you get to feel better and you find the strength to put boundaries between you and him. Not for them, but for your happiness. After all, you do deserve it.
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