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A week or so ago i was supposed to hangout with my 2 best friends but then one of them lets name her R, said she didnt think she could come so me and my other friend, M, made plans to visit our friends. Then R said she could come and asked what we were doing so we told herwe were going to visit our friend, D, but R doesn't like D and we also were going to visit our new friend, J, so she came anyways even though she doesn't know who J is. When R showed up to M's house she was very quiet and didnt seem like she wanted to talk to us. And on the car ride there she was quiet and ignored what we said and didn't speak the entire time except maybe 2 words. We saw the friends for maybe 3 minutes each we weren't there long at all. When we got back to M's house R was still quiet and wouldnt talk so me and M talked about our 2 friends since R wouldnt respond to us when she was here. She was just texting her boyfriend the entire time and wouldn't speak to us. Then she got a "call" from her mom saying she needed to go back home. She left and then i stayed for a bit and then eventually i went home and me and M decided to text our groupchat and like have a conversation and see if she would respond. Which she didn't so i asked her "Are you Okay?" and she started lying and saying she was sleeping and didnt respond bc she was asleep and i said well u left us on open and then she continued to lie and say all this stuff that didnt match her other stories. She then said she "didn't like 'd' and that she didnt want to be there and to hangout w D and J on our own time. So then we talked normally and stuff andme and M decided to hangout w D and J on our own time as she said. R posted on her private story saying she was "crying all day" so i ask her whats wrong and she says shes so bored all day. and then i said oklets hangout soon. and she was like okay. but then we hung out w D and J the next day also bc we had plans 2 days and i slept over and M's house. R's boyfriend unfollowed me and M on instagram and unadded me on snap that night. i asked R and she said she didnt know but then M asked J and he said that we "leave R out of everything" and "we shouldnt hangout w/o her because she felt excluded" when she KNEW we were hanging out w D and J because we posted about them and her bf said we were "rubbing it in her face" when all we did was post on our stories. Keep in mind R and M would hangout w/o me plenty of times and I never cared and it was just them too. R also claims she didnt do anything wrong and she told her bf we "ignored her" when she was the one who wouldnt respond to us when we talked to her. and she told us we did everything wrong. the next day she hung out w 2 friends she hasnt seenin awhile andposted on her story and captioned it "the girls" which is a caption she had on an instagram post for all of us. I'mnot saying that botheredme it's just petty.
I just want to know if from this story like did i do anything wrong? i dont think i did but maybe from someone elses perspective i might've??
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I dont think u did somethin wrong since u already informed her that y'all be heading to Ds house. But if I were on your shoes, I would ask her to have a heart to heart talk soon. If u think ur friendship with her is worth saving then I hope yall can make amends. Anyway, life's short. :)
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