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My biggest regret was my previous marriage. Despite all the red flags and my family screaming at me don't do it, I still said "I do". Thing is, I only found out the real him after the marriage. The lies, the secrets, the addictions, the stealing, the isolation, the confrontations leading to accusations, calling me crazy. I felt crazy. I went crazy. I was afraid it was too late to walk away. I convinced myself I was getting cold feet. Rose coloured glasses all distorted. I went through trauma as a child, lost a parent. I never talk about it. I thought marriage and building my own family will give me a purpose to live. I always wanted one and still do. Terribly betrayed from the start. Even cheating would've been better. Seven years.
Now I understand why Betty did what she did, but I find greater peace in knowing that I've left your punishment to higher power.
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My regrets are mine, I doubt sharing will ease the burden you must be carrying.
I dont know anything about marriage or families. I go and forth all the time about it, I've never NOT wanted it y'know? I donno. I'm sorry, I honestly cant imagine what it must be like. I'm sorry you married a boy instead of a man. You definitely deserve better, you're not crazy. You're not losing it. You're just struggling a bit with life, that's fine. It may not feel like it, but it isnt always gonna be like this.
You've come a long way from where you started, take pride in that. You dealt with all kinds of hurdles and even if you didn't get away unscathed, you're still standing. I think that's pretty amazing. Im sorry I couldnt be any help. I hope you find peace and if you'd like, I'm here if you wanna talk. Cheers
ReplyThank you for the reassurance. I'm grateful for your positive reminder. I have come far. I just hope to accept this as my reality. Wish people in my life could be thus thoughtful. But sometimes talking to my social circle is like talking to an algorithm :(
ReplyThat's not good. I had that problem before but we kind of worked on it. We talked about eachother, what's important to each of us. We agreed that we cared enough about eachother to step out of our comfort zones, to make the effort to be there for one another. That being said, it didn't happen overnight. I really wish I could help in that regard but
You're a survivor. I know you'll get through this stronger than before. I'm happy I could at the very least make you feel better. Finding paradise is tough, but if anyone deserves it, it's you. Stay safe wherever you are
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