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Hi, it’s my first time writing something here and I guess I just don’t have that someone I want to talk to about this stuff since all of them would usually say, ‘oh i’m sorry’ and stuff. And I don’t like to repeat myself about this situation because I blame myself in the end as always.
So i lost a pet of mine, again. I haven’t fully accepted yet the death of my dog from last year then my cat died as well this january and now we adopted an abandoned cat that my father found who died this morning. I feel like i’m a horrible owner and an unlucky human. It’s like I get attached over these pets so much then they’ll be just taken away from me so suddenly. Like, no one wants me to be happy :) I keep telling myself when my cat died this january that I won’t adopt a new pet anymore but the new kitten came and she was abandoned and crying and I just want to help her but I guess me helping her also led to her own life being taken away. Anyway, I just felt like sharing these thoughts somewhere and I just hope that my dog and cats are together now :)
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I too have pets, I can relate to the caring you carry for them. I have never lost one yet.
All I can say is that things arent meant to be permanent. Look dude I know it feels like to lose someone/something close to you, I know. Feels bad. Real bad. Like dropping your parents wedding plates down the stairs, tripping and landing on top of them, then shitting your new pants at the same time (Yes I speak from experience, I had to get china shards pulled out of my asshole) but you get the point. It sucks.
But it will keep happening, not just with pets, but friends, family, even your parents wedding plates. Just be prepared. I just ended up forgetting about it over time and surrounding myself with good people. That may not work for you, but whatever you do, DO NOT BLAME YOURSELF. Because wether it was your fault or not, its done. no taking it back.
ReplyI can't imagine how sad you are. I recently got a kitten and already I can't imagine what I would do without her. But remember, death is natural. Your pets are no longer in pain. They know you love them, and it is not your fault. I know it may not feel like it now. But things do happen for a reason, without sadness we would not know what happiness is.
ReplyNo one should have to feel like this, it's not your fault what has happened to your pets. You didn't do anything wrong, so please do not blame yourself. You honestly sound like a really lovely and kind person, and your pets were so lucky to have someone who cared so much about them. I'm sending you love to deal with you grief, I hope you are able to find some solace.
ReplyIt is so sad that you have lost these pets. Wait awhile and then get another one. Good luck.
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