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I know it sounds stupid, but I just can't stand the uncertainty and pain that goes along when you start liking someone. I know it's natural to feel a little conscious, unnecessary worried over the littlest things, and you just kinda start to feel lonely. But at the same time, you're happy with having the person in your life, just being able to talk with that person with whatever gives you that magical feeling. I'm just tired, so tired of these conflicting emotions. Just typing this out here for a release - I know that nothing will change and that this is just a phase... I guess it gets better if I give it some time.
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I grew tired of this too and now prefer to be on my own.
ReplyI also understand this. I know how to enjoy life to the fullest on my own but then this happened so now I'm distracted from all the activities I'm doing lol. I hope I can find my own way to cope with this matter soon too!
ReplyDude, I know exactly how you feel. When you first start to like someone it can get kinda crazy. Honestly, for me anyway, having a crush on someone isn't truly a phase. I mean, you might move on from that specific crush, but you'll always like/love someone ya know? Someday it might be your partner. Someday it might be your spouse. Love and crushes are a totally natural part of what makes us human. I feel lucky to even be able to feel these things sometimes. Sometimes it can suck, but just remember that if things go bad, it's never the end of those butterfly feelings. They'll always be there, ready for the right person to come along.
ReplyRight. Thanks for reminding me that I should appreciate being able to feel these kind of things, because even if they're exhausting they're also beautiful in many ways. That kinda made me feel a little better :)
ReplyGlad I could help :D
ReplyDamn this hits hard because I felt this exact feeling all through my life crushing hard on someone. I have moved on now and I feel a sense of relief that I am not tied to those conflicting emotions anymore. It isn't necessarily a phase but I do know that you can change, it is natural to feel that way because love is complex and makes us do so many different things, feel odd and just overall moody. So like you stated yourself, give yourself space and time :)
I believe in you <3 I hope that whatever is troubling you breaks away from you and gives you a sense of relief.
ReplyHi, thanks a lot for your kind comment. Glad to know someone who's been on the same feeling back then and now able to move on freely from it. I hope the same for myself sooner or later :)
Have a great day! <3
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