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I am 26 years old now and I planned myself to be married on my 27th ever since. So I’ve got a boyfriend now we already spent 5 years together but I’ve never heard any plans for any settling down together. I don’t also see my future with him. You know I am patient, I actually could wait until forever but I believe in gut feelings that when you sense something it must be true. So when I feel that he is not the one he might not be the one. But the problem is we already spent years together..it felt like I wasted his time if we break up and the quarantine is on going I don’t want him to feel that during his low season of his life when he don’t have money I will leave him. I am not like that. I do give him money when he needs to borrow some but it felt weird being with him even I know deep down I don’t really love him. It is like lying. How can I tell him? I wanna be good to him and still be friends after tho
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Just do it in person and you should be fine.
ReplyExplain how you feel and tell him you will be friends to him if he wants to be friends too. It isn't up to you to keep loaning him money. He has to learn to stand on his own two feet, and 5 years is a long time for him to be with you and to not want to settle down. He is probably using you. He has already wasted 5 years of your life. Many years ago a girl could sue a guy for this but if this law was still around now and you sued him he would have to borrow the money from you to pay you!
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