family problems (idk what to do)

about a month ago I was at my nona’s house (grandma) and I was having a panic attack over something and I asked her to take me home cause of it. she kept questioning me like “why r u upset?” “tell me again,” trying to avoid taking me home and making up excuses for me to stay. when you’re having a panic attack, you don’t want to be questioned you need to get to a place you feel safe. so after her trying to question me for forever, she finally said “whatever” and drove me home and was so rude to me the way there. then she tries to text me now and a week or so ago like nothing happened. she’s just like my dad (now I know where he gets it from), they don’t like talking about anxiety or depression. they full on ignore it and have no care towards anyone who has it. I don’t know what to do cause my dad I obviously have to handle living with his horrible treatment but I love my nona but what she did hurt me. and she also texted my mom making it seem like I’m a bad person and I’m ridiculous for having anxiety. idk what to do. nothing I guess.