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OK SO WHY WAS I SO STUPID???? I SHOULD GET A TATTOO OF THE CLOWN EMOJI ALL OVER MY BODY. I SPEND THE ENTIRE QUARANTINE FLIRTING WITH A GUY ON IMESSAGE (I KNOW HIM IRL) BUT WE WERE SO HORNY SO WE DECIDED TO HAVE SEX AND WE HAD SEX AND AFTER WE HAD SEX HE BASICALLY DISAPPEARS.............. I WASNT EXPECTING ANYTHING BUT...... I FEEL LIKE A WHORE. I WANTED TO HAVE SEX AND I DO NOT REGRET ANYTHING BUT.................. AM I A WHORE??????????????????? I TRIED TO CONVINCE MYSELF THAT I AM A FREE WOMAN AND I CAN DO WITH MY BODY WHATEVER I WANT BUT I CANT HELP FEELING LIKE I BASICALLY SHOWED NO RESPECT FOR MYSELF OR MY BODY SO HOW TO THE FUCK DO YOU GIRLS DO IT?? YOU JUST HAVE SEX AND DONT GIVE A SINGLE FUCK IF THE GUY TREATS YOU LIKE A SLUT? LIKE YEAH I TEXTED YOU EVERYDAY CAUSE I WANTED TO FUCK YOU AND NOW THAT I DID I DONT CARE ABOUT YOU ANYMORE HAVE A NICE LIFE, TALK TO YOU NEVER........ ITS SO FRUSTATING.
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You are not a whore friend. Those are literally just labels that men (and sometimes women) put onto women because they are afraid of their sexuality. If you wanted to have sex with him, and you don’t feel regret, great! But it sounds like maybe you were hoping he wouldn’t just ghost you and it’s his actions that are causing you stress. You don’t have to justify yourself to anyone..ever. Maybe you’re not the type of person for casual sex like this? I don’t know I know for myself I feel the same way it’s really just a personal feeling. But bottom line you are no whore or slut or any other bullshit that anyone tries to put on you.
ReplyIt honestly sounds to me like your mind is trying to tell you that it values meaningful sexual encounters. Which isn't abnormal.
That just might be who you are. Does it make you a "slut"? No. It means you tried something, you didn't like it at all, obviously. So your next step here is to figure out what you've learned from this experience.
By your own account, it felt wrong that there was nothing afterwards. It made you feel dirty, right? So you need sexual partners who are actually going to commit to a continuing relationship beyond sex.
That is perfectly fine and you're better off for knowing yourself a bit better. Now you can say that it's just not your thing and that's ok. Anyone who doesn't like it can suck rocks.
Replyyou're not stupid. You just expected that the guy will treat you seriously after having sex, but unfortunately, no. So keep in mind next time, if the guy is really into you, he wont dump you just because you dont want to have sex with him.
ReplyI've been there. Don't take it to seriously, It just means you're not into hookup culture. Which is perfectly fine. I used to think that I wanted to hookup, and when I did it for the first time, that ended up being the last time I ever did it. Try using a dating app like okCupid, or Bumble (tinder sucks cuz people really just wanna hookup). Or maybe take a break from romance, if you know it's overwhelming for you. But it's perfectly ok to have casual sex. You're not a slut. You're an adult just trying out things you wanna try, and you're totally entitled to do so.
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